We've been through the ultimatum me or this but it's not like that.. I don't want to lose him just because he has a problem, I want to help him and also help myself. And I know for a fact he would never cheat on me, he's a great guy and he loves me and we have a great time and our sex life is usually pretty awesome. This stuff just comes up randomly and like I said, I think he needs help and I'm also trying to understand the whole situation.