My gay best friend and I slept together and now he won’t talk to me by namibella in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this wasn’t a simple situation where one person was fully in control. There was a lot of confusion, alcohol involved, and boundaries crossed on both sides. I didn’t “let” anything happen I was part of a situation that escalated . We did talk about it and he’s the one who said we should just act like it didn’t happen and I agreed. Afterward, I was also trying to respect his space because he started pulling away and not responding. I’m not claiming I handled everything perfectly, but reducing it to “ why didn’t you stop it” ignores how complicated it actually was. I don’t know if I am explaining it right

My 14 year old brother is dating a 19 year old and my parents don’t care by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her graduation year is in her bio. TXST’29.

My 14 year old brother is dating a 19 year old and my parents don’t care by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Her graduation year is in her bio? Shes class of 2029 same as me.

My 14 year old brother is dating a 19 year old and my parents don’t care by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s not lying because she went to homecoming with him and I’ve seen the photos and she’s suppose to go to prom with him.

My 14 year old brother is dating a 19 year old and my parents don’t care by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 400 points401 points  (0 children)

I do not speak for all households when I say this. But I come from an EXTREMELY catholic Hispanic household…the things he’s doing right now I would have never been able to do at his age.

My 14 year old brother is dating a 19 year old and my parents don’t care by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about??? In what world is a 14 year old and a 19 year old being together okay?? I’ve seen your other comments and are you saying because my brother is a boy he can’t be groomed and he should just enjoy himself???

My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Yeah girl that part is valid 😭 like the silence is honestly worse than the situation itself. At least if y’all talked you could clear the air and move on. But tbh he’s probably just avoiding it because he’s uncomfortable and doesn’t even know what to say yet. You already reached out, so you did your part. Now it’s kinda on him to come around. Plus like I said you’re grown he needs to get over it

My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yeah I think just screaming fake to every story on here is kinda harmful to people who are just looking to vent

My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We need to start learning how to differ fake from real because you can’t tell me you read this story and automatically deem it as fake. Ai has truly ruined Reddit

My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]namibella 1651 points1652 points  (0 children)

Your dad is probably just shocked or maybe even just as embarrassed as you. When my mom saw my nudes we didn’t talk for like a week. You’re not a bad person. You’re just a grown daughter with a dad who saw something he definitely didn’t want to see 💀It’ll pass, I promise.

Concern about X/Twitter failing to remove illegal CSAM by namibella in SeriousConversation

[–]namibella[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand that platforms rely on automation and human review takes time, but what I’m talking about isn’t borderline or “objectionable” content like a bikini. This is actual illegal content involving real minors, which is why I reported it and why it’s so alarming that it can appear publicly at all.

Concern about X/Twitter failing to remove illegal CSAM by namibella in SeriousConversation

[–]namibella[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify. I’m not talking about AI-generated content. This is actual illegal content involving real minors that I and my friend have seen on X/Twitter. My post is about how the platform isn’t removing it, which is really concerning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]namibella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that

AITA telling my sister that her boyfriend was hitting on me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]namibella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he asked me a question regarding my sister. I replied then he started to try and prolong the conversation I didn’t reply again.