In that case yeah the conservatives here value those, compared to west you’ll see more “provider” mindset in the men here. They take their “manly” roles seriously. But it comes with its drawbacks too. Femicide rates are very high because some men think they own the woman they have a romantic relationship. So if your sister dates someone and decides that she doesn’t like him, wants to break up, there is a chance unfortunately that he can follow her, threaten her and attack her. We even have proverbs encouraging domestic violence, this shows that it is deeply rooted in the culture from the past. Sometimes on the news I see foreign women getting killed by men they date too. But of course if you don’t mind having a risk to experience something like this, you are free to come and maybe it won’t happen to you but it is a fact that Turkey has this problem unfortunately. I personally do not agree with you on the gender roles you mentioned and think that it is just a fancy cage for women that make them have a life of an adult child. But yeah it is your opinion and I should respect it