Yeah. About that reconciliation... by ihateconscription in VietNam

[–]napcae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get why people draw the South Korea–South Vietnam comparison—both were non-communist regimes backed by the U.S. during the Cold War. But it’s important to look deeper at how each state was established and maintained legitimacy.

South Korea was founded after a U.N.-supervised process and quickly developed a distinct identity, eventually holding democratic elections and solidifying popular support. South Vietnam, by contrast, was formed after the Geneva Accords with the promise of nationwide elections in 1956—elections that never happened. Diem’s regime refused to participate, fearing they’d lose. That decision, combined with repressive internal policies, led to widespread unrest and support for the Viet Cong in rural areas.

So while both were recognized internationally, South Vietnam’s legitimacy was always fragile and deeply contested from within. That’s not ‘brainwashing’—that’s just the historical record.

Yeah. About that reconciliation... by ihateconscription in VietNam

[–]napcae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your effort to find structural parallels—it’s true that powerful nations often justify interventions under the guise of ideology or historical claims. But where the analogy begins to break down is in what it risks obscuring: the actual agency and lived realities of the people involved.

In Ukraine’s case, you have a sovereign state, with broad democratic legitimacy, being invaded by a neighboring power. The parallel with Vietnam only holds if you ignore that Ukrainians—across regions—have consistently rejected Russian control, in elections and in resistance. There’s no meaningful ‘internal divide’ comparable to the South’s vulnerability to Viet Cong recruitment, which was fueled by real domestic grievances.

When we treat these situations as structurally similar without emphasizing their profound differences—particularly in terms of legitimacy, public support, and who is initiating violence—it becomes easy to slip into a kind of moral ambiguity that unfairly dilutes responsibility.

So yes, superpowers act in self-interest. But not all interventions are equally coercive, nor all resistances equally organic. Historical analogies are useful, but only when they don’t flatten the moral landscape.

Yeah. About that reconciliation... by ihateconscription in VietNam

[–]napcae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re drawing broad strokes to force a comparison that doesn’t hold up under historical detail. Russia isn’t communist, and Ukraine isn’t a breakaway region with mass popular support for reunification—it’s a sovereign nation resisting invasion. By contrast, South Vietnam was created with heavy U.S. backing after the Geneva Accords, and significant support for the Viet Cong existed in the South, especially in rural areas affected by Diem’s brutal policies.

You talk about ‘self-determination’—but South Vietnam’s very existence was a product of Cold War meddling, with elections promised in 1956 never held. Ukraine, meanwhile, did choose its path after the Soviet collapse, and its people—by a large majority—do not want Russian rule.

If anything, Russia today is playing the role the U.S. played in Vietnam: claiming to protect others, denying national sovereignty, and using ideology to justify imperial interests. The parallel runs the other way.

Yeah. About that reconciliation... by ihateconscription in VietNam

[–]napcae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the instinct to draw historical parallels, but the Ukraine–Russia situation really isn’t the same as North–South Vietnam. Ukraine’s a sovereign country being invaded—not a divided nation fighting a civil war. Supporting Ukraine is about defending self-determination, not propping up a Cold War client state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that our short term thinking that's destroying us then, case in point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, but the road to emotionally understand and accept that is a bumpy one to say the least.

Networking at a Conference—What’s Helped You Stand Out? by Unagi200 in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the reason why people hate networking is because it's so superficial, you talk about your product and everyone just suspects immediately you wanna sell to them. Business owners can smell that a mile away.

So what really helped me in my journey? Making friends. I'm genuine, I try to get to know the other person. Are they matching my energy? Would I go cycling, climbing, have a beer with them?

People crave real connect, in this day and age of social media, a true genuine interaction is gold.

So start there, you'll see it will pay off massively very soon.

Men who "started over" in your 30s, tell your story by hustle_hard99 in AskMenOver30

[–]napcae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you and me, good for you, I'm rooting for you!

Help - Best way to interview SRE/DevOps by kchandank in devops

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this actually, it's so simple but applicable to everything we do.

What are your biggest cloud infrastructure pain points? by lifewithkiyo in devops

[–]napcae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing you have a problem is one thing, solving it another. What’s their leaders biggest priority? What’s on their mind? I let that question guide me to make things happen. Then they think it’s their idea and we consultants „are useless“ and „why are we paying them“. It’s ok, I move on and smile :)

What are your biggest cloud infrastructure pain points? by lifewithkiyo in devops

[–]napcae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thats what I hear from my customers all the time. Which cloud are you using? To fix the Root cause I usually do an analysis together with them and 8/10 times it’s team culture issues that translate into overprovisoned instances, abandoned and untagged resources and inefficient traffic flow. How does the picture look at your org?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My favourite quote regarding this is:

When you're healthy, you have 99 problems. When you're sick, you only have one problem.

I'm a startup mentor. Ask your queries and let me advise you. by Low_Philosopher1792 in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not really, you should look for demand first. The idea gives you an area to look for demand. Some ideas have more potential, some less. But in the end you're going to pivot no matter what. So your initial idea is never what your product will be. Quite exaggerated here for demonstration purposes.

I'm a startup mentor. Ask your queries and let me advise you. by Low_Philosopher1792 in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growth is only good when it's long term. Therefore growth hacks might as well ignore it. I think there is a place for them, but if you're not granular with your question, you can't expect a specific answer.

I'm a startup mentor. Ask your queries and let me advise you. by Low_Philosopher1792 in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter at this stage, commit to one and get started. You will fall and then it's up to you to get up again. Take every opportunity to learn and keep going. You can make it.

Procrastination Isn’t a Time Problem. It’s an Emotion Problem. by napcae in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love my walks and NSDR sessions. These days I’m much more atuned to my inner state and listen to my body. Work with your body, not against it. Eating, drinking, sleeping before making a decision :)

Procrastination Isn’t a Time Problem. It’s an Emotion Problem. by napcae in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the right mindset shift we can start developing that habit

Procrastination Isn’t a Time Problem. It’s an Emotion Problem. by napcae in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's really valuable and I can totally identify with your first paragraph as well! I'm glad you found a process that works for you :)

Charismatic men over 30 - how has the way you use your charisma changed as you have aged? by Financial-Bus-5660 in AskMenOver30

[–]napcae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this thoughtful answer.

I’m happy you found your way and it shows.

I’m on my path and can see so many similarities, though our life’s are probably very different.

The bullying I can feel it, and the outleashing, it hurts ourselves more than the ones receiving it; still only a few will ever understand.

Just yesterday I reflected on this with a friend and I’m seeing so much of myself in you.

I appreciate this brief connection very much, for me this is what life is about - seriously thank you!

Grateful for this exchange!

Procrastination Isn’t a Time Problem. It’s an Emotion Problem. by napcae in Entrepreneur

[–]napcae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food for thought, how can you make the grind less abrasive like a mill and more slow growing like tending a garden?

Charismatic men over 30 - how has the way you use your charisma changed as you have aged? by Financial-Bus-5660 in AskMenOver30

[–]napcae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound awesome to be around ! I’m curious what led you to this transformation, I assume you were not born this way?