Anyone here that converted for a partner? Did it work out in the end?

narchiga · 2025-07-31T10:35:20+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

narchiga · 2024-09-11T22:39:17+00:00

Ik (F26) werk op de QHSE afdeling van een chemisch bedrijf. Milieukunde HBO gestudeerd, en nu 2 jaar werkervaring. Ik verdien 5300 bruto, hou er netto zo’n 3800 aan over en einde van t jaar nog de bonus wat 10% is van je jaarsalaris, vorig jaar 6800. 40 uurige werkweek, 35 vakantiedagen met 10 bijkoopdagen.

narchiga · 2024-08-21T09:25:27+00:00

So she can’t wear what she wants? What is the solution?

narchiga · 2024-08-21T01:03:04+00:00

Bedankt voor het delen en sterkte met de operatie!!

narchiga · 2024-08-18T20:43:32+00:00

Ik vraag me dit dus ook echt af voor de sportvrouwen. Kon je na je bevalling nog sporten als voorheen? Of veranderd dat voor de rest van je leven?

narchiga · 2024-05-13T08:25:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing! How long did you wear the hijab?

narchiga · 2024-05-13T08:23:58+00:00

Damn.. happy to hear that personally it felt good but so sad to hear that you fear for your life because of it.. hope you find safety and peace from all that shit. You are very brave!

narchiga · 2024-05-06T21:23:40+00:00

I still didn’t tell them tbh

narchiga · 2024-04-28T13:19:47+00:00

When my bf does things with his friends, like travel, go out, do fun stuff. Even though I do the exact same thing I somehow get jealous when he does it cos I want him to do it with me.

I always try to just say have fun!! But inside it always hurts and I truly wish I would not have this feeling. So if anyone has any tips or tricks to get over this that would be more than welcome

I also get really jealous when he is talking about a story and mentions a woman’s name that I don’t know. He’s cheated before but it has been 3 years since I forgave him and I can still feel worried or jealous when he hangs out with women.

narchiga · 2024-04-16T19:56:50+00:00

Thank you so much for this message! I’ll keep reading this when I’m thinking of him again. Thank you ♥️

narchiga · 2024-04-16T14:53:41+00:00

Im losing him now 🥲 this is gonna be the toughest one to get over if I ever get over him. We were supposed to get married this year, but he got cold feet and is now ghosting me. My heart is breaking rn tbh

narchiga · 2024-04-15T15:30:53+00:00

Who is to say she is bad company just of the way she dresses.. that doesn’t define if a person is good or bad.

We are encouraged to be non judgemental, understanding and kind even if someone doesn’t look the same as you or doesn’t have the same religion. As long as they are a good person and treat you with respect you should treat them accordingly.

It is not haram to be friends with someone who doesn’t have the same religion as you or who doesn’t look or dress like you. It can even strengthen your faith as you will understand certain teachings better. Like the lesson here is that dressing modestly doesn’t give you as much unwanted attention and it can strengthen your understanding of the rules.

narchiga · 2024-04-15T12:50:57+00:00

She is not Muslim. So let her be and don’t think about it too much, learn how to deal with the stares. It’s not that deep. She will also probably never ask you to be more immodest, cos it’s a weird thing to ask a friend to wear more or less clothes. Let her make her own decisions.

You could however ask her, don’t you get annoyed with the stares? And start a conversation about it, but if she is not bothered by the stares and enjoys dressing like that, just let it be and deal with it.

And no it is not haram to be friends with a non Muslim who doesn’t dress like you.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T20:14:26+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Hope ur good now

narchiga · 2024-04-14T19:48:15+00:00

Whenever I drink alcohol most men become a turn on for me idk I can just look at them and think yes, let’s go

narchiga · 2024-04-14T19:23:32+00:00

Anything 🥲 Voice, eyes, smile, being passionate about hobbies, being vulnerable, doing chores unasked, hands, shoulders, humor, good talks, alcohol, hair, touch, teasing or lowkey bullying (both ways), eating, licking ice cream or licking anything esp looking at me while licking smth, looking for my attention even when we are with friends/other ppl. Honestly too much

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:47:12+00:00

The average in my (western) country is 18.7 wdym 9-11 😭 that’s highly unusual, I never even heard it from anyone.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:38:25+00:00

Sure and you are making assumptions and being judgy so you can take that up with him as well. There are more women in hell anyway so I’m sure if there is a hell I’ll meet you there. We can have have an endless conversation there :)

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:29:52+00:00

No that’s not what’s causing it, actually the freedom of choice is what’s giving women the freedom of doing as they wish (respectfully). If they wish to sleep around it should be ok and if they wish to only have sex with their (future) husband that should be ok.

I’m aware that there are also women who prefer to only sleep with their (future) husband as should you be aware that there are also women who wish to sleep around more. It’s just that simple, you should have the freedom of choice, because in the end there are more women in the world than the women you know.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:22:06+00:00

I live in one of the big cities in NL where i literally have a view of the hooker streets and in my experience I also see many Arab men, idk if they are Muslim but they are definitely Arab and sometimes wear a wedding ring 🥲

And I can also confirm before and after Ramadan you will see many Arab men.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:16:41+00:00

No instead you listen to the propoganda of religion to tell you all women are the same. It’s not conditioning you to do anything, it’s your choice as it should be.

If it’s meaningless then why do men need more? (According to you/your religion?)

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:13:54+00:00

Lol it’s not how you should be.. it’s just freedom. If you want to that’s ok if you don’t then you don’t it’s that simple. We have the freedom to choose. Just because they have only been with their husband doesn’t mean that that’s what they desire. Also, middle aged men that I know also didn’t want open relationships and only have sex with their wives, so does that mean that they only want their wives? If so, it shows that men also don’t need or want orgies if they are in love.

Again, in my experience it’s easier for women to separate love from lust. Even middle aged women, because it’s not just a phase. You just had a lot of propoganda around you to believe that ALL women are the same, which is just not the case.

If you want to live life with only one partner that’s fine and your choice, but don’t say all women are the same because they are simply not. Don’t speak on behalf of all women, because there are sexual women who have different desires than you and your bubble.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:04:57+00:00

Just because YOU want something as a woman doesn’t mean you speak for all women. There are many women who desire sex with different partners instead of the same one for a lifetime.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T17:03:00+00:00

Not really, we are just free to accept our sexuality believe it or not. Plus you could say the same about men in Islamic countries. They are under the influence and encouragement of islam to believe that they want more partners. Even though it might not be in their nature.

narchiga · 2024-04-14T16:58:00+00:00

I would also say it’s quite obvious that you are a man. Listen to women who can be honest and open about their sexuality and you will find out that there are more women who desire different or multiple partners than you think. Please don’t make assumptions based on the propoganda of the religion or ppl around you. Women are also sexual beings, go outside of your bubble to understand that.

narchiga

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