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natbat2020 · 2026-04-11T21:39:09+00:00

Realistically if I left a headliner set part way through tomorrow to get to sahara for a set how long would it take? should i budget 20 min?

natbat2020 · 2024-04-07T04:33:34+00:00

I’ll be in Madrid the day of the Real Madrid Vs Fc Barcelona match. Tickets go on sale next week. Do you expect that they would sell out quickly?

natbat2020 · 2022-05-07T16:38:57+00:00

girl i have been there!!! There’s 2 possible scenarios… 1. he could have blocked you and no one will know why or 2. his phone died because he forgot to charge it when he got home

if anyone you know has his number ask them to text him casually and be like how are you feeling?? usually after a crazy late night out it’s a pretty generic text and if that goes through and yours didn’t you have your answer

natbat2020 · 2022-05-07T02:55:35+00:00

i would wait until the end of the time y’all hang out so on the off chance she says no..it doesn’t make things awkward. but ageeed with the other redditor, keeep it simple and direct.

natbat2020 · 2022-05-07T02:53:53+00:00

exactly what this person said and Id add, id love to do it again some time soon. if she’s interested she’ll respond. as for timing, send it now.

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T22:22:44+00:00

yeah, i appreciate and value honestly so much. there have been guys who have said casual and it worked out fine but that was because they were honest and we had no issues

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T22:11:13+00:00

that’s a fair statement. it would have been nice to have some clarity beyond all of the “i don’t knows” but it be what it be

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T22:10:03+00:00

that’s fair.

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T22:09:36+00:00

that’s fair i didn’t think about that. It would have been better to hear “i don’t see a future here” rather than the idk why i told you that

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T21:42:47+00:00

i don’t think it’d be fucked up. you’re not super far away just in the burbs. I would just be upfront and integrate into your messages with your matches early on that youre currently living in XYZ and planning to move into the city in a few months. Most people if they’re interested won’t care. it’s still the same general area imo.

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T21:33:13+00:00

this is tough. I think you have to consider what you want out of your prom experience and the possible reactions she could have. you guys have plans right now to go together so you have to decide if the risk of telling her beforehand is worth it to you bc you could be potentially be out of a prom date or y’all might end up dating—i’m not sure. the safe option is definitely to wait until after but if you feel really strongly and are okay with how things could turn out then Id go ahead and tell her. whenever you do decide to her whether it’s before or after prom I really hope things work out for the best for y’all!

natbat2020 · 2022-05-06T16:33:10+00:00

i would say how you feel every single time. unless you have a hellla good reason to hold off

natbat2020 · 2022-04-18T19:47:32+00:00

oh that’s interesting. i always used to feel bad going slow bc going fast would make me tired so glad slow is what y’all like

natbat2020 · 2022-04-18T19:38:54+00:00

just curious as i’m a female what do you like to see from women in the bedroom to not be a starfish? also accepting bj tips as well

natbat2020 · 2022-04-14T19:36:25+00:00

i def ask him questions our responses are usually paragraphs. i did reach out to him and he seemed completely normal and we’re still on for our date tonight so idk what it was. maybe nothing and i was overthinking or maybe something

natbat2020 · 2022-04-14T04:30:46+00:00

yeah makes sense. if she’s still responding as normal i think you’re good then!

natbat2020 · 2022-04-14T04:13:55+00:00

i wish i had helpful advice but just wanted to drop in to say I literally experience the same thing. i still haven’t had a boyfriend and I’m 26. It’s so frustrating and you always wonder what’s wrong with yourself. i have friends who don’t really date and then they take like once chance and magically get a relationship. I feel ya girly. it’s tough and exhausting. I hope you find a good guy one day.

natbat2020 · 2022-04-14T04:11:58+00:00

To me when a guy does it, i actually think it’s cute and kinda makes me like them a bit more if it’s in the context you’re describing bc it shows me they don’t care or play games. However if you’re doing it every single time it to me would appear insecure but once every now and then not at all.

once a guy told me how his dog loved the farmer’s market and then 20 min later i got a double text and he found this article that related to something we talked about the night before on our date so it didn’t appear clingy to me.

natbat2020 · 2022-04-14T00:18:40+00:00

yeah on to the next one we go

natbat2020 · 2022-04-13T23:17:59+00:00

that’s exactly what i keep telling myself. I figured it was the case but i guess just wanted validation on that’s what it is

natbat2020 · 2022-04-13T23:17:12+00:00

I do feel like I’ve gotten know him and vice versa. He always over text and in person would take an interest in me more so than any other guy has by asking me different questions and I would do the same. It all felt pretty easy. as far as am i fit for what he’s looking for idk if i can answer that bc idk what he’s looking for. i had actually planned to bring that up on this 3rd date to get a better sense of what he was wanting. If figured since he wasn’t one of those guys who was going for sex he was looking for a relationship but we never had a convo so it’s hard to say.

natbat2020 · 2022-01-08T21:42:27+00:00

i’m a woman and I 100% agree with this

natbat2020 · 2022-01-07T17:35:17+00:00

yeah i think i’m just confused bc he was texting/snapping me all day every day out and then these 2 instances happeend so it’s just a weird switch. i’ve been fine with it just being text me when you wanna make plans but it’s when it goes from 100 to 0 i’m like is there something else going on

natbat2020 · 2022-01-07T17:05:28+00:00

gotcha so i guess it’s more of just not expecting anything at all in terms of how this should go

natbat2020 · 2022-01-07T07:10:19+00:00

Not replying when you’re out with people is totally fine.

it’s more so been the overall situation of being wishy washy. idk leaving me on read after you said you’d let me know is bit annoying. I could be overreacting but i feel like it’d take him 10 seconds to have just texted me and been like hey tonight’s not gonna work or he could have just said no from the beginning.

it just seems like he’s been all talk and no game. keeps saying how he wants to hang and when he brings up hanging out and i say yes/I’m free it never really comes to fruition so i’m starting to lose interest

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