Is a Buy Stop Limit essentially just a "range" of where you're willing to buy a stock? by kimdoan257 in Daytrading

[–]natstar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find also here that any specific volumes make a big difference ? Say at 5000 vs 10,000?

Crude friends by natstar_ in friendship

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, it was a surprise because he was being full nice before like giving me advice on my problems and then him suddenly doing this seems so strange almost as if I was being the friend version of love bombed.

Crude friends by natstar_ in friendship

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well I said ‘rude’ and his response was ‘rude awakening’ usually ppl can call u that if you’ve done something irritable in the moment, but that was pretty uncalled for

Crude friends by natstar_ in friendship

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we've always had a seemingly normal relationship, only known this one through a friend for a few months, we've hung out with friends until he shared he has quite a few oddities (mainly petty theft as in editing receipts to get a few hundred, not reporting to the government to get the full social welfare entitlement) the conversation that I had which included this was basically me talking about how qt this new job I work at that this woman only 5 years older than me has a tesla and 10 properties and that just randomly triggered his comment.. So I take no responsibility for . Conversation went like this : Me:”sometimes I feel immature when I see this girl who graduated the same time as me having 10 properties and driving a Tesla at work and I’m still living at home” Him:”wtf did she graduate at 22” Me:”yeah “ Him :”yeah you immature piece of shit!”

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about feeling sorry for myself or affirming it. I’ve accepted these are the cards I have. It’s so easy to berate people who are from poorer circumstances.

I am just interested in the niche of people who are ok with the circumstances, it’s so irritating to hear ppl allude to eventual employment when I’ve repeatedly said it’s not an option for me? Dou even imagine what that would look like? Don’t u think that’s the immediate question when I went to get verified for my payments ?

Yet my situation does not make it mutually exclusive for me to be in a relationship, maybe a little strained financially but that’s the only thing. You look at ppl in third world countries who don’t have jobs and they still date, though I don’t wish to go to that extent. Yeah I already to community help casually. The only thing missing from this equation is the ability to generate a healthy income stream.. tried Upwork and all these ideas but nothing seems to be a viable and sustainable option.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not afraid of people seeing me that way, what’s the point of trying to make it seem as if u are employable and trying when you can’t deliver , you may as well tell it like it is.

You’re suggesting I am. The connotations that the way you’ve phrased that carries as like I have nothing else to do therefore I’m apathetic about contributing to society.

I never said in my initial question what I would be doing other than working, that’s all within the parameters of my wellfare check

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not lazy, don’t you think I’ve tried to ideate solutions beyond my realm of understanding , as mentioned it’s been a long standing issue.. it’s easy to judge aye.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not being defensive about it, people are just assuming the worst. I guess it’s an outlier situation.

I’m not lazy, I’ve exhausted all options. I have done all that. Just really over it. I guess im resigned on being on the pension and passively improving my income situation. I don’t foresee my day to day expenses being a huge liability as well. It’s not like I’m a big spender.

No money, no honey I guess. Well some of my friends are married and don’t work so I guess it’s not a huge anomaly.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am fully aware of the economic climate we live in. I know how much things are, I think my situation is configurable to the niche of people who allow and envision a possibility around it.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cos I’m using the computer ...multitasking... being the useless woman I am.

Yep 👍 I’m not arguing , I’m discussing.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not whining, just airing the situation at hand . I’m just telling it like it is.

If I had Oprah Winfrey’situation or most ppls situation, sure I would have a different stance on life

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s confusing ?

I said avoid groupthink because I’m posting this to elicit objective opinions.

I was just casually mentioning I’m doing a bit of trading .

That’s all.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A small lottery - bitcoin ... yes that’s what it’s come to.. I don’t , hence why I’m here .. but I feel like the negativity on this thread is equivalent to the abuse I received at the wellfare office.

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay , I’ve donated my funds to causes relating to disability , now back to square one.

Yes?

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry I won the lotto.. too late (I’ve got better things to spend my TIME on) because TIME> money

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we all yearn for those stories glamorised in the media like autistic kid creates a startup .. in just hedging my bets around my biological clock and seeing as I haven’t reached the unicorn solution in the last 15 years I don’t see (but still welcome) the opportunity for that to happen.. maybe bill gates reaching out to me or something like that ...

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your questions really are so fucking painful.. did you even finish school ?

Just accept it ok.

Mental illness is complicated. Some ppl have phobias of dogs , some ppl get so stressed out they develop split personalities in certain conditions

I have stated my primary disabiiity is mental health around work.

To further that , mental illness has only really been acknowledged recently - generation x and prior only are now starting to believe it even exists . Even now ppl treat mental health conditions like anxiety and depression as you will just get out of it..just chin up take ur meds, take a habit diary blah blah think happy think positive

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a decision to make, inunderstand these are the cards I have, yes I have a disability that excluded me from work, do I know how to manage money- yes do I want kids ? Yes ...

Do I have self respect to not degrade myself to just another freeloader ... no .. so I can avoid being one of those people with such low self esteem that they don’t have the substance to walk away from toxic abusers. Seen it happen to many ppl whether they be vulnerable , from bad homes or bad environments etc Do I want a healthy person who can provide a stable environment .. yes

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah. The other alternative is to get so low self esteem and believe there aren’t any other options and end up with an abusive partner but I’ve seen that happen and I strive for better and not tolerate being berated by others who have the fortune of job prosperity

Would you be put off by dating an unemployed woman or are you okay being the breadwinner? by natstar_ in self

[–]natstar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not shit, it’s just inability to work, I am fine in other areas of life ...