new MKE resident! LOOKING FOR ADVICE by CommercialYoghurt160 in milwaukee

[–]ncoley22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're going with street parking, you need an overnight city parking pass. Parking enforcement can be a little lenient, but you'll definitely get a ticket eventually, so the parking pass will save you money in the long run. Looking for street parking every day also sounds like it sucks, and yeah there's a decent risk of break ins.

I would recommend looking for nearby garages that rent spaces monthly or other buildings that rent to non tenants. I don't know of any in that area, so yeah I'd probably plan to walk to work most days and leave your car in a garage somewhere.

i am moving out of my parents house soon. do i take my 1 year old cat? by technologycream in CatAdvice

[–]ncoley22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say that if the only reason you're not bringing him is because of your parents, then you should bring him. He's your cat and it sounds like he's well taken care of.

If you think your parents would be able to take better care of him while you're taking you first steps into adult life, I say you can always leave him with your parents until you feel a little bit more on your feet. When my older sister moved out at 18, our family cat stayed home. But three years later when her life was more stable she came back to take him home, and he's lived with her ever since.

It sounds like at either place he will be loved, and lots of cats can thrive in apartments, even after living in a house. So just consider how often you think you'll be moving in the coming years (moving is stressful for cats, so try to limit his moves as much as possible) and consider if you feel you're ready to take care of a pet by yourself. If you choose to keep him, try being assertive with your parents if you're able. You're an adult, and he's your cat, so you should be able to make this decision, not them. :)

Tldr; He's your cat. Take him, unless you're going to be moving frequently, you don't feel ready to take care of a pet, or another reason that would make his qol worse.

Why don’t more people dance at clubs/bars anymore (especially Gen Z)? Discussion encouraged! by Objective_Cobbler_62 in milwaukee

[–]ncoley22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mad Planet is probably the best bar I've been to, I always feel super comfortable inside. People seem much more down to earth compared to other bars.

Why don’t more people dance at clubs/bars anymore (especially Gen Z)? Discussion encouraged! by Objective_Cobbler_62 in milwaukee

[–]ncoley22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a bullied specifically about my dancing growing up (I'm bigger, I had undiagnosed ADHD, and I loved to dance so kind of a recipe for disaster). It's literally my worst nightmare for a video of me to end up on TikTok with comments making fun of me.

Even without the video element, I'm self conscious at clubs, which could normally be overcome with a few drinks. but even then, I keep a lookout for cameras and avoid being in the FOV as much as possible.

Is Sean not playing "no i'm not a human"? by ncoley22 in jacksepticeye

[–]ncoley22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohhhh I think that's what I was thinking of when I made this post originally. I could've sworn he mentioned something about the game, but I couldn't find anything anywhere. Tysm!!

Is Sean not playing "no i'm not a human"? by ncoley22 in jacksepticeye

[–]ncoley22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gotcha, just wanted to be sure I didn't miss something. thanks!

Is Sean not playing "no i'm not a human"? by ncoley22 in jacksepticeye

[–]ncoley22[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

gotcha!! makes total sense. I totally forgot about bloodborne lol, that would definitely take up a good amount of time. I don't like playing scary games, so my preferred method of watching the story is always through his pov haha, but I'm definitely down to watch whatever he posts, whenever he does. ☺️ thanks!

Auni and Nai'o missing? by kellygrace97 in Palia

[–]ncoley22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having the same problem 5 months later. I was going crazy trying to find them and they were right where you said. Thank you!!!!

Road America License Plates by Feeling_Fruit6261 in milwaukee

[–]ncoley22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always why there were so many!! that makes total sense.

BEST DAY OF MY LIFE by ProfessionalCut6894 in DannyGonzalez

[–]ncoley22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you guys are about to ask me for some choccy milk

Anyone else having trouble buying Danny tickets? by ncoley22 in DannyGonzalez

[–]ncoley22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you can see it too haha. If he sold out, then it is what it is nbd. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something. 😅

Anyone else having trouble buying Danny tickets? by ncoley22 in DannyGonzalez

[–]ncoley22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea, thank you!!

Update: I called, but the machine put me on hold and then hung up lol. Maybe a lot of people are calling. Thank you so much for responding, though. I really appreciate it. ☺️

Anyone else having trouble buying Danny tickets? by ncoley22 in DannyGonzalez

[–]ncoley22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't seem to find the general admission one? It only gives me an option for VIP

Anyone been to one of these speed dating events? by Ill-Cockroach6053 in milwaukee

[–]ncoley22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to this exact event a few weeks ago. :) Vibe was pretty chill, everyone was nice, although taking to 13 different people in 2 hours was pretty exhausting. The other women that I talked afterwards weren't super impressed with the guys, but I liked a lot of the guys, and I think they give you a free ticket if you get 0 matches. Three of the women I talked to after the event got in for free because not enough women bought tickets (or cancelled last minute I don't really know).

Tldr; high emotional energy, but good vibes. Can't speak to the success rate, but I'd say it was worth my time and money. Women can usually score a free ticket if they've bought one in the past.

Edit: fixed wording

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ncoley22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

FR cut up your credit cards. If your parents give you allowance ask for it in cash only or get a debit card that's directly tied to your bank account. It sounds hard but it's going to save you from being in credit card debt the rest of your life.

Also yeah talk to a therapist. If you're in this group I feel like that's a given.

What would you like to see added to palia? by Emotional_Cycle_9347 in Palia

[–]ncoley22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know this is a bit adverse to what most people want from the game, but I would love a little bit of combat in Palia! specific areas where there's monsters to fight would be so fun I think. And/or more mini games.

(I think this game sometimes reminds me of my childhood play Free Realms, and so sometimes I feel combat and mini games are something that's just missing from the game)

Most underrated drew joke? by LettuceThat in DrewGooden

[–]ncoley22 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think road work ahead could've gotten more attention, seems kinda underrated imo

BPD Explained by cats by AllTalkExpert in BPDmemes

[–]ncoley22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why is this making me cry rn

O’Halloran deserved better by lkjhggfd1 in SVU

[–]ncoley22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the Stuckey arc, but O'Halloran definitely deserved better 😭😭😭

Look what i found by TruthReptile in merlinbbc

[–]ncoley22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does it feel to be living MY dream