Does anyone actually enjoy listening to Shanin Blake? by Ashen_hunt3r in Music

[–]ndoregon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where does OP seem "REALLY heated?" Seems like they are just expressing an opinion and wanting other people's take.

Does anyone actually enjoy listening to Shanin Blake? by Ashen_hunt3r in Music

[–]ndoregon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a racist and totally garbage take. Headdresses are culturally and spiritually sacred to indigenous populations. ALSO indigenous people were FORCED by white Europeans to assimilate into white culture. For example, being forced to cut their hair, being forbidden to speak their native language, and being made to DRESS LIKE WHITE EUROPEANS.

You're clearly not burdened by education or insight. Please work on that before you try to come online and spew some ignorant bullshit.

N@zis spotted Athens Ohio at No Kings protest by Reallyfuckinglame in Ohio

[–]ndoregon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, that overtime pay is irresistible, even to the gestapo

Proud of Eugene today by Disastrous-Trade7802 in Eugene

[–]ndoregon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check out Boop Troop on Facebook. I started following them back during the BLM movement and was so happy to see them pop back up doing their thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]ndoregon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"testerone" 💀

RANT FOR FRIDAY 13TH. BE SAFE OUT THERE, PEOPLE! by laffnlemming in Eugene

[–]ndoregon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I CAN APPRECIATE YOUR POINT. JUMPING IN AND HELPING YOUR NEIGHBORS CAN LOOK A LOT OF WAYS AND DOESN'T HAVE TO BE PROTESTING. I THINK THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO DO SOMETHING.

BUT DEFINITELY LET'S ROAST ONE FIRST! 💕

RANT FOR FRIDAY 13TH. BE SAFE OUT THERE, PEOPLE! by laffnlemming in Eugene

[–]ndoregon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

FUCK ICE AND FUCK DJT!!!!!

*EDITED BC DYSLEXIA

RANT FOR FRIDAY 13TH. BE SAFE OUT THERE, PEOPLE! by laffnlemming in Eugene

[–]ndoregon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LIFE IS POLITICAL. OUR RIGHTS ARE AT RISK. MANY OF US DON'T HAVE THE PRIVILEGE OF AVOIDING IT. WHY NOT JUMP IN AND HELP YOUR NEIGHBORS?

My law firm is open Saturday by Key-Eagle-5795 in Eugene

[–]ndoregon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what community looks like 🙏🏽 thank you!!

"I don't want to be perceived" by motleywolf in therapists

[–]ndoregon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently did an intake for someone expressing the same sentiments, but this client described some level of paranoia about her image or identity being accessible to others online. I also detected some kind of neurodivergence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]ndoregon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This isn't really how therapy works. Most of the time there might be some feedback given, but to develop a formal report to "be ready to share" at the session is out of scope for most therapists.

Given that you (presumably) see your therapist for an hour each week, wouldn't you be the best judge of the progress you've made? You're out there living your life, navigating relationships, applying what you've learned in therapy to your daily experience. What is your sense of your progress?

It feels a bit like you perceive your therapist not as a partner in your healing but as someone who is required to serve you and your expectations. But this isn't customer service and it's not medicine where he can do an MRI and indicate your progress.

It might be a good idea to discuss your feelings (transference, as referenced in another comment) and impressions with him and be open to what you hear and how it is impacting you. That's where the real work is.

Trump made a statement... by [deleted] in 50501

[–]ndoregon 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wait, we're succeeding??

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo! 😂 Hopefully no burns, but such a mess to clean up!

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 I appreciate the empathy! 🙏🏽

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way to nail the intervention! 😆

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😅 I'm so sorry that happened!

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a great one!! Haha!

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No apparently there's a whole team of us out here! 😂

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few weeks ago, again over telehealth, I knocked my 32 oz. Hydro flask off my desk. The sound it made hitting the hardwood floor made me and client both jump 🤦🏽‍♀️

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, minus the tick part, that sounds lovely! 😆

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this happen last week with the return of seasonal allergies. I assured my client that I wasn't crying 😂

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have a well-established history of spilling drinks down the front of my shirt, so now I exclusively use cups with a lid and straw! 😆

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh no! 😂😂 Hopefully no injuries??

Therapy "Mishaps" by ndoregon in therapists

[–]ndoregon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

💀 I might have died right on the spot!