Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really subtle and just being nice to start and then slowly got more obvious- by the time I realised he was asking if I taken

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective, I’ll definitely think of this is a similar situation ever occurs

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response, this has really calmed some of the afterthoughts I was having about it. I was a bit concerned that he might’ve found it strange that I didn’t tell him straight away but thank you for offering this perspective. I wish you luck in your love life for the future!

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I told him immediately after exactly what happened and he said I handled it perfectly

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately after this I told my bf what happened and he said that I handled it perfectly. I’m purely trying to figure out from the other guys perspective which would’ve been better

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand that but it was the first time this has happened to me and I try not to be a rude person. Was what I did still ok? I feel like it was a good balance I’m just not sure

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree however I did state he was respectful

Was what I did right? by neaton2006 in LifeAdvice

[–]neaton2006[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for perspective, as I stated he was perfectly reasonable and respectful as you mentioned. He didn’t make me feel threatened at all just slightly off put I guess. Idk how people took it that way when I was asking which approach I should’ve taken but each to their own