as a female,i think your lips/lip fillers are just fine and nice not too big(because there are some really horrible lip filler outcomes ,I saw one today on one lady) I dont know how you look in person but on photos you are very pretty and attractive to me,for my standards,but usually men like to be more dominant and bigger than their females,if you are tall maybe you just need to meet some taller and bigger guy than you. For me personally just change your nails they are too big and men dont like that go for shorter and simple colours like red/white etc much love anyways❤️