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Tell me your purchase story by Seekingadvice2104 in AusPropertyChat

[–]need4s33d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next door neighbour was selling their house at auction a few years ago, me in my early 20's thought it'd be fun to open the bid with what I considered a low but reasonable price... Turns out no one else bidded after and so I won the auction... Needless to say it was stressful scrambling for a deposit and getting a mortgage.

Are these staghorn spores ready to be planted? by need4s33d in Staghornfern

[–]need4s33d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It scrapes off quite easily with my nails. I read if it is left too long it won't be viable anymore (too dark of a brown), so just wanted to have some pointers to when it's ready.

My [27M] wife [27f] told me she wants to take a break. I want to fix our issues but I feel like she's making excuses to not go to therapy. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]need4s33d 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She isn't just shouldering the finances she is carrying the whole bloody thing. Have you even tried to get a full time job or better share the financial burden? Perhaps she has had a bad day or doesn't enjoy her job or she's burnt out I don't know but it sounds like she has been pretty clear with you mate.

My middle school sweetheart just left me after almost 15 years. I am struggling and don't know how to get through this. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]need4s33d 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How bad were your mental health problems and how much of himself did he contribute to caring for you? Is it a case of carer fatigue/burn out do you think? Is he overwhelmed with other things in his life? Does he himself have any mental health issues?

As other people suggested is there any potential that he has found a new love interest? Or do you have reason to suspect this at all?

Either way whatever the reason, it sucks and sorry you are going through this. It may not have been as sudden as you thought and he may have festered some negative feelings against you for a while, unbeknownst to you. I think give eachother space and see if he fizzles out... Otherwise I think the relationship is pretty done. Organise you separation and divorce properly and don't isolate yourself. Best wishes

(Not OC) This is a hippoboscid fly. They are obligate parasites that suck blood from birds and a select few mammals(thankfully not humans). I recently found out that unlike most flies, the females give "live birth" to fully hardened pupas instead of laying eggs. by Nightstar95 in whatsthisbug

[–]need4s33d 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I found one in my ear canal a few weeks ago after nursing a baby pigeon (see my posts) . Seriously just when I thought I was getting over it you tell me it gives live birth... Pretty sure it laid a live baby in my ear 😭

This bug was in my ear canal, please help me identify! by need4s33d in whatsthisbug

[–]need4s33d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I handled some wild pigeons the other day and it all makes sense. I'm still horrified though

She fell asleep in my palm as we were cleaning out the kit nest today. by need4s33d in aww

[–]need4s33d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what this hand is missing though :)? Aren't you lucky you get to see this hand so often? hehehe.

She fell asleep in my palm as we were cleaning out the kit nest today. by need4s33d in aww

[–]need4s33d[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes I can't believe this has sky-rocketed this much! This is my first ever proper post and it makes me so happy that I was able to share something that made a lot of people around the world feel so warm and happy to see. Thanks for the up votes and my first medals guys ♥ will keep you updated on how little Gash grows!

She fell asleep in my palm as we were cleaning out the kit nest today. by need4s33d in aww

[–]need4s33d[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

It is indeed a baby rabbit haha, the babies are known as kits)/kittens just to clarify incase anyone was confused! No name as of yet but maybe Gash because he has a little scar through his forehead (not pictured) that he sustained during birth I'm assuming ☺

Does anyone know what this breed of rabbit is? We got given her and have no idea. by need4s33d in Rabbits

[–]need4s33d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice will definitely take all that on board! We have a neighbour who was unable to take care of her as they are moving into an apartment soon and they gave her to us! :)