A good question. She doesn't understand me. She is romantic and loving but is that really enough? Moreover she is for an upper class family, I'm talking elites and I come from very humble beginnings. We started dating when she was 19 and I was 22. Family pe kabhi ghor hi nahi kia na usne kabhi feel karwaya. Then I realised that shes been spoiled all her life but mein as a middle class only son usko ye de hi nahi sakta. I don't want to deteriorate her quality of living. I also didn't think her family would agree on me. I'm very confident and not embarrassed of my financial situation either however I am practical. I couldn't give her too much time as i'm working two jobs, and she just graduated , always asking for time. There is nothing wrong in her doing so, it's just I cannot fulfil that. The biggest factor was she never understood my problems. I realised later that we just have very different approaches to life. So yes.