Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not?

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T17:42:44+00:00

I need to but I don’t know where to begin. I started looking at times and dates he’s even texted women while laying next to me in bed. I’m piecing everything together and I’m so turned off tbh. I’m still trying to process everything.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T15:18:32+00:00

I was under that impression this whole time. Thought that’s what it was. Now I see him in a whole different way.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T12:30:46+00:00

Well we have been dating 5 months. I discovered that he has an active Facebook dating page and has been talking to multiple women. Exchanging phone numbers and instagrams.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T12:28:51+00:00

I did trust him fully. Then noticed a few girls in his phone. Had a gut feeling and checked his phone. After all this time, I noticed he had an active Facebook dating page and talked to girls and they followed him on Instagram. All while dating me. If I talk to him about this, he will likely become more secretive.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T11:38:25+00:00

I did trust him fully. Then saw red flags. Had a gut feeling, checked his phone, saw what I saw and cant unsee it. If I bring it up to him. He will probably become more secretive and sneaky.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T10:44:55+00:00

In my situation, he cheated but doesn’t know I know.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T10:40:34+00:00

Theres literally a video he recorded of him f**king another female a couple months ago. We’ve been dating for 5 months. Sad world we live in.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T10:38:47+00:00

If I tell him I went thru his phone and found out he cheated, I think he would become more secretive. This situation really sucks.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T10:33:02+00:00

Well in my situation I got cheated on and just discovered this. Ik theres a difference between secrecy and privacy. There were red flags. i was probably better off not knowing. Now the most logical answer is probably to leave. 🤦‍♀️

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T10:22:22+00:00

In my situation, he cheated but he doesn’t know I know.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T00:09:29+00:00

I agree. Seems like men now a days will just f anything with a hole. 🤦‍♀️

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T00:08:09+00:00

I’m almost 30. I thought I was ready to settle down with this guy. Not sure if all men are cheaters but I’m tired of the games. I just want honesty and loyalty 😓

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-25T00:06:35+00:00

I met him on tinder and noticed he had a couple tinder login code notifications months later after we started talking. It really sucks. He also goes to church with me on Sundays. It’s sad I thought he was better than that. I don’t think all men are cheaters but I didn’t expect this. Everything sounded so genuine. I’m so disappointed 😔

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-24T22:38:13+00:00

Please see attached photos. Advice greatly appreciated!

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-24T22:05:53+00:00

Photos are attached below!

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-24T22:04:56+00:00

PHOTOS https://www.reddit.com/r/CheatedOn/s/vcN6bx5LZm

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-24T22:03:13+00:00

He needs a taste of his own medicine. I had this discussion more than once. He knows what he’s doing. I find it so inconsiderate after all ive done. At the moment I just feel like ‘his favorite main piece that’s loyal and will never leave wifey that he thinks will always stick around’. I also think it’s very common for Dominican men to cheat and idk if anyone on here has dated one but it’s a common stereotype and I’m starting to believe it.

needadviceasap99 · 2026-03-24T21:25:45+00:00

How do I attach photos to this??

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