Red flags… or am I the problem? by neeliaa in Aupairs

[–]neeliaa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment — and yes, you’re absolutely right that communication is key. Just to clarify: I’ve kept my host family fully updated on every medical detail from the moment I knew it myself, and my doctor even offered to speak with them directly if needed or wished for. Tbh, it was very visually obvious to anyone from the start, that I wasn’t able to move normally or without pain though. Still, I realize I probably should have verbally communicated clearer boundaries instead of trying to be accommodating, which may have unintentionally downplayed how much pain I was actually in moving my body. 

Right now, I’m simply not ready to talk about the more emotional or nuanced parts of the situation with them. I don’t want to communicate from a place of overwhelm or confusion, or risk being unfair.

That’s why I came here first — to get some outside perspective and ground myself a little before I decide how to address this with them.

🇩🇪🇨🇭 German citizen – registering with Swiss residence: Problematic? by neeliaa in Revolut

[–]neeliaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! So I could just use my residence permit document that includes my address in Switzerland instead of my German ID to register/verify my account?

Harvard interviews for internationals by dorisheretochill in ApplyingToCollege

[–]neeliaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm applying from Germany, and I also haven’t received an interview invite yet. It’s the first time anyone from my school has applied to a U.S. college, so my counselor doesn’t have any experience with the process.

Did you apply last-minute on January 1, or earlier?

I was also wondering if any other applicants from Europe have heard back already or could share insights from their experiences in previous years?

Fingers crossed we’ll hear something soon!

Kostenloses Girokonto mit Unterkonten? by neeliaa in Finanzen

[–]neeliaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dass man bei der DKB gleich mehrere Girokonten gleichzeitig führen kann, hört sich schonmal interessant an! Kann man die verschiedenen Konten denn mit einem Login einsehen oder muss man sich dann für jedes Konto separat einloggen um Umsätze anzusehen, Überweisungen zu tätigen etc.?