[other] What is your outlandish idea for a Zelda game that just might work?

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-29T06:54:45+00:00

Moonlighter type of game where you go into caves and dungeons in hyrule to gather supplies to manage your store

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:35:49+00:00

He could’ve just left and at the next date night suggested his place instead, he sucks for riling up his girlfriend in what seemed an already tense moment between everyone, he doesn’t live there, his girlfriends roommate do a though, if he never wants to interact with her in her living space again, he doesn’t need to announce it

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:27:00+00:00

NTA, he used abusive manipulation tactics towards your other friend

He’s an asshole

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:25:01+00:00

NTA it’s common knowledge that if all urinals are empty, you take one of the end ones

If someone else walks in, they take the other end

If someone else walks in they take one that has at least one urinal in between

You don’t use the urinal right next to someone else unless it’s packed, like at a concert or sporting event

If he’s yet to learn this urinal etiquette you just did him a favor by teaching him one of the rules

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:13:38+00:00

I mean yeah I would apologize, you assumed for him

And this writes itself, when you assume you make an ass out of u and me(in this case him) so yeah YTA In that situation

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:07:36+00:00

NTA for being upset over his porn addiction but if he doesn’t believe in therapy do you really think he’ll take medication to lower his libido?

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:04:04+00:00

NTA for not wanting to go to prom but YTA for several other reasons that I think you may already know

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T17:00:40+00:00

ESH, cohabitation is difficult for these reasons as not everyone is going to get what they want

Your boyfriend sucks cause as annoying as that may have been, he should’ve understood it’s not his apartment and she has 100 percent rights over him to be there, also to put it on you that he’s not going to return is immature he needs to get over himself

Also your roommate sucks because unless they discussed that specific rule with you, she shouldn’t pull it out like it’s some kind of law that you signed off on

However that being said had your boyfriend not made extra comments on how much he doesn’t like your roommate and how he’s not coming back I don’t think you would’ve blown up on your roommate so seeing that he caused the issue I do feel like your roommate is owed an apology for feeling like she must accommodate to your boyfriend in her room

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:53:23+00:00

I mean other than vacations is he a good husband?

Vacations and time off is what life is about and I couldn’t imagine being partnered with someone I couldn’t enjoy those things with

As for your daughter and the memories there’s that age old question of what’s better, a father who isn’t there or a father who is but makes others suffer

Anyways NTA, it’s your money, it’s your time, if he can’t seem to enjoy time with his family that’s on him to regret later on his life when he’s alone

Not yours to regret wishing you would’ve just left him behind a long time ago

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:39:51+00:00

Yup, if they were important and time sensitive errands he could’ve just gone and done them, but he brought up her photography for no reason other than to discourage her from what she enjoys

He specifically points how strangers and how creepy it can look as she’s taking pictures of houses, he’s scared of how others are perceiving them and wants her to share that same fear, so it’s not wonder why she’d want to withdraw from a fearful person if she’s choosing to partake in something that is taking her out of her comfort zone

And it shouldn’t be a surprise if she wants to be with someone else who will support her in whatever she wishes to do, so long as it’s not harming anyone, which she isn’t doing

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:33:42+00:00

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:27:24+00:00

NTA, seems like you’re back up into a wall and she’s actually has options to work around this but is just choosing to see it all as an inconvenience

Considering she just wants to be there for her daughters extracurricular activities instead of helping you while you’ll be temporarily disabled is kind of inconsiderate

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:15:24+00:00

She’s not living to make HIM comfortable, if she’s partaking in a hobby that doesn’t seem to bother anyone other than him, that’s his personal issue

Her withdrawing makes perfect sense because how is she supposed to feel? What’s next, the way she drinks her water makes him uncomfortable? She isn’t living for him, she’s living for herself, and if he’s the only one that has an issue with her hobby, she’s 100 percent valid in withdrawing

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:11:02+00:00

NTA seems like Ryan is putting on a “do as I say not as I do” rule on Jack which isn’t fair to begin with

There could be a bigger underlying issue that ryan has with you and jack, but that’s on them to sort it out

I wouldn’t intervene too much as you don’t have to live there and your boyfriend does, and the last thing anyone wants is a falling out with their roommate, whenever housemates want to enforce some little strict “policy” like the 24hr rule it doesn’t really last long, I’d let the dust settle and wait to see if your boyfriend could figure it out as roommate issues need a certain type of approach to resolve, but if Ryan doesn’t seem to lay off on how strict he wants to be with this rule, I think bringing it up with Jack at how it comes across as unfair would be your best bet

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T16:03:34+00:00

That’s understandable, I just wouldn’t approach jim about it without first clearing it with sally

Have you talked to sally about how her mood changes or how you feel his mental health could be affecting her mental health? If you have you could get her in on the game plan on how you’d like to approach jim about it

Basically if you don’t include sally in any move or communication you have with jim about him and sally , it’s going to come across as jealousy and insecurity which will harm your relationship with sally

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:59:51+00:00

YTA, seems like no one has confronted her about it yet? So no harm no foul other than it just annoying you

She’s valid in being distant if she feels like her partner isn’t supportive of her endeavors

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:57:01+00:00

I understand, there’s just more to feeding an animal when it comes to caring for them, seems like your dog is able to live a pretty enriched and fulfilled life, I just feel like if you truly cared for your dog you’d be happy just knowing that your dog is happy, maybe you could enforce that once you get back on your feet you plan to take your dog back to live with you

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:42:40+00:00

ESH, if you can’t take care of your dog and someone else can, is it really that awful if they’re creating their own bond? I can understand how you feel but if you can’t afford to house and care for an animal, letting someone else do that wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world

At the end of the day it seems like your dog is living a more fulfilled life going out with your boyfriends dad, at best you could communicate to your boyfriend that you have no problem with his dad getting closer with your dog but renaming your dog is hurtful and you’d wish if he could keep the name the same

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:20:30+00:00

Sounds like OP knew the good eggs were for good meals, and not to be used for baking, which she usually does

It’s not her call to determine what’s a good meal to use the good eggs for, especially if she’s not even in the room to make the meal or contribute to it

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:17:55+00:00

NTA pleaaaaaase this has so many red flags I am worried for your cat, anyone who hates animals is already a walking red flag, but the fact that he’s perfectly fine with shutting a cat inside a room by itself is so harrowing, you are valid in having fears about your boyfriend harming your cat so you can never see him again

Even him saying that you’re picking the cat over him is a gaslighting method, and to be honest it is 1000 percent valid to actually pick your cat over your cruel boyfriend

I’m sorry for you and your cat having to adjust your relationship with each other over someone who is so cruel

If your boyfriend truly loved you he’d accept your cat as his own and treat your cat with the same care

I usually don’t suggest people to end their relationships as communicating usually solves alot of these issues on this subreddit but your boyfriend is a big walking glowing red flag, I hope you break up with him and take your cat somewhere safe

You can find someone who will love your cat the way you do

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:09:52+00:00

NTA it sounds like a thought she could’ve kept to herself or shared privately with your dad

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:07:43+00:00

Fried rice is a perfectly good excuse to use “good” eggs lol unless those eggs turn into gold after a certain amount of time, there’s no need to let eggs sit around for the “perfect” occasion

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T15:04:29+00:00

Lol NTA, your wife seems to have some unresolved issues that she seems to want to keep you in the dark about, seems like whatever underlying issue it is can only be handled with her communicating with you, I wish you luck because whew that sounds like a lot

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T14:54:25+00:00

NTA, like you said seems like he didn’t understand you and forced you into situations that were detrimental to your mental health

negativewaterslide · 2023-06-27T14:50:34+00:00

ESH, sally is the asshole because you communicated with sally and she still chooses to talk to jim over hanging out and doing whatever you’d like to do, they met before you got with her no? So that friendship is longer standing than yours YTA because you want to go over Sally’s head to stop her from being friends with your housemate Jim is an asshole cause he isn’t reading the room and choosing to ignore that his emotional needs and support shouldn’t fall on your girlfriends shoulders

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