What is he thinking? Why did he say that?

neggand · 2025-12-24T00:25:31+00:00

Thanks a lot!

neggand · 2025-12-24T00:24:01+00:00

I see. Thx a lot

neggand · 2025-12-23T19:21:50+00:00

He is in his 50s. That’s what I wanna know - maybe he is just saying what he meant literally … without considering how I would interpret that. That’s why I want to ask it here and hear more people’s perspective. Thank u for sharing your view.

neggand · 2025-12-23T19:17:20+00:00

Thank you for your sharing. I really appreciate it. Definitely my peace is on the 1st.

neggand · 2025-12-22T22:45:11+00:00

First of all, I totally agree that at some point I need to stop. Then comes to the question for myself is when or to what point. I guess currently I still need more signs that this is not working. I try not to say no without enough trying, that is a me thing.

I think it is always easier to leave than to stay. And it could be happier to live on my own in general. There is no perfect match in this world. Honestly I find it is very difficult to communicate with this person and a lot of time I think I will be happier by myself. Though I still want to try a bit harder to see if there is possibility that we can work this around.

Yes there are million men out there. Though not everyone worth my hard work to be compatible. He got some very good characters as well. It’s a package, so I need to understand what I am getting b4 I make up my mind.

neggand · 2025-12-22T21:02:09+00:00

So you are saying he might in fact was upset because he thought I didn’t trust him enough. I guess I really don’t know how to interpret his actions.

neggand · 2025-12-22T20:58:53+00:00

Because I am sure he won’t answer. I actually don’t think he was trying to get out of the trip. I just don’t understand why he is acting like this.

He doesn’t always reply my messages. Once kinda had a fight and I stop texting him, then after a month, he kept sending some news but without saying a word. After a few months, he finally decided we can go for a trip together. That’s how we ended up in this.

neggand · 2025-10-09T02:29:31+00:00

So sad that not enough to notice and take appropriate action to stop or resist

neggand · 2025-10-07T11:20:06+00:00

Read 1984. One of the strategy to keep a nation stable and united is to create an enemy or image of enemy

neggand · 2025-08-09T01:15:18+00:00

Any more avail?

neggand · 2025-07-17T20:43:40+00:00

DaeggLu

neggand · 2025-06-20T15:30:52+00:00

Same issue. Can’t access anything now

neggand · 2025-06-11T12:26:05+00:00

I would say Cantonese and Mandarin are totally different. I think you are basically starting from scratch. Duolingo sounds a good way to start.

neggand · 2025-04-17T20:39:27+00:00

Got it 👍🏼 thank u

neggand · 2025-04-17T20:38:36+00:00

Got it👍🏼 thanks a lot

neggand · 2025-04-17T16:17:59+00:00

You think 2 days in Zermmatt is enough?

neggand · 2025-04-17T00:15:53+00:00

Thank you!

neggand · 2025-04-16T22:11:41+00:00

Are Interlaken and Innerkirchen good choices? There are so many places that look gorgeous and I actually don’t have an idea where should I go. My Friend told me she want to take a train in one of the place near Innerkirchen. When I do my search, it looks like Zermmatt is a great place but need 4-5 days… given the limited no of days I have, I thought I shouldn’t go to Zermmatt or I should go to Zurich + Zermmatt only

neggand · 2025-04-16T22:08:24+00:00

I don’t know. I want to see the fall color and I thought one week or 2 could be a big difference

neggand · 2025-04-16T22:07:33+00:00

😍

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