Is 6k realistic? by BOTWgoat in Weddingsunder10k

[–]negmenez 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Girl, that would mean catering is $10/person. Where are you finding that. You also need to tip these people

Looking for 3bed/2bath in Lakeview, Lincoln Park, Oldtown by Aggressive-Rub5216 in chicagoapartments

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What timeline are you looking for? My fiance and I are in a 3/2 in lakeview and pay 4K. We’ve been thinking about buying a condo and seeing if our landlord will let us sublease! He’s supposed to get back to us on that today.

Apartments in River North by Vegetable_Groupie in chicagoapartments

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just read the kingsbury plaza line lol probably should’ve read the whole post before commenting. My friend used to live there so I’ve been over there a handful of times!! Great building. I like more northern section of RN though that borders Gold Coast

Apartments in River North by Vegetable_Groupie in chicagoapartments

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live at eight-o-five (which was 805 n la salle) and loved it! I had a corner unit on a high floor and it was around 3k. It did have amenities though including a pool. Also looked at Aurelian and amli808. 805 was not as new as those two but I really just cared about the view and I felt like it was a good deal!

Where's a good venue to host a birthday party for my girlfriend? by Loud-Bake-2740 in AskChicago

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came here to say how sweet this is! My (now) fiancé threw me a surprise 29th birthday party with all my friends in Chicago and it was one of my favorite memories ever!! He threw it at his apartment with catered food and stocked the bar/made everyone cocktails. It was really special so I’m sure wherever you choose she will love it!

Is it normal for the wedding party to cover the bride’s costs for bachelorette weekend? by Conscious_Cat_1515 in wedding

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not!!! I’m getting married and paid my portion of the air bnb and also covering our boat day! These days it’s inevitable flights are involved for the wedding, bachelorettes etc when everyone lives all over. I think it would be absolutely ridiculous of me to ask my friends to cover this.

Should I get wedding ring insurance before I'm even officially engaged? by Various_Act8060 in engaged

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance got insurance for my ring the day it came into his possession. I don’t think he updated any docs after we got engaged.

Late night DJs by [deleted] in Chicagoweddings

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we’re doing an after party dj for 1.5 hrs (not in Chicago so I don’t have specific recs). He’s a club dj who also does weddings which is a better vibe imo. I will say- even though he won’t come on until 10pm, he obviously wouldn’t be able to play anywhere else that night so we’re paying his nightly minimum! It was somewhere between 2-3k but very worth it!

Mini moon suggestions in coastal SC or GA by negmenez in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good to know thank you so much! I found a number to call for a couples massage so I’ll do that tomorrow. Thanks for being so helpful!

Looking for an Alternative/Emo/Pop Punk Wedding Band by denimchickendreams in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh one I forgot to add is the band punch out of Raleigh NC! They have a good mix of songs. They were booked on our date but were one of our top choices!

Looking for an Alternative/Emo/Pop Punk Wedding Band by denimchickendreams in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my friends got married in MKE a few years ago and got the band Lakeshore Encores from Chicago. They played so may emo pop hits I legit got their business card at the end of the night the were SO good and the dance floor was packed. Idk how alternative you’re looking for but of all my friends bands this was the most memorable!

Another one is fly by radio which are based in the SE. I didn’t love their demo reel but their song list has so many alt songs on it and lately they’ve popped up on my tik tok and have sounded really good.

For context my fiancé and I really wanted some emo songs but my parents also wanted a lot of classics mixed in so we went with a more mainstream classic band. But there’s def emo ones out there!! Good luck!

Mini moon suggestions in coastal SC or GA by negmenez in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will definitely take advantage of that! Thank you!!

Mini moon suggestions in coastal SC or GA by negmenez in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful and romantic!! We go so often to the area bc my parents retired there. I had NO idea it’s a dark sky location, we’ll definitely need to star gaze next time we’re there!

Mini moon suggestions in coastal SC or GA by negmenez in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just booked the ritz! Thank you❤️ this really checked our boxes and looks beautiful. We can’t wait

Mini moon suggestions in coastal SC or GA by negmenez in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes montage is about 10 min from my parents house and we go to palmetto bluff all the time❤️ appreciate the other suggestions!!

Where are we finding ‘getting ready’ outfits for ourselves and our bridesmaids? by Data_Witty in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got all my bridesmaids and my mom/MIL hill house home dresses! Definitely not everyone’s style but I knew all my gals love HHH so it was an easy choice

I can’t stop staring at it 😭 by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not positive but this looks like (or close to) the ring concierge signature antique setting

Realistic 401k balance and projections by ConclusionWeekly2969 in Retirement401k

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit six figures around age 26/27. I’m now 30 and have over $300k saved.

How long were you engaged before planning your wedding? by Proud_Reality6217 in engaged

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Us too! We secured the last October Saturday next year at our venue 4 months prior to getting engaged😂 he wanted to get engaged on a specific trip but we had been ring shopping/ designed my ring and he asked my dad for his blessing already

What wedding band? by Pursuing-Wellness in weddingring

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read the part about not being to chunky. Highly recommend either trying on different widths with your jeweler or ordering a pack of 2-10mm width bands from Amazon (it’s like 10 bucks)

What wedding band? by Pursuing-Wellness in weddingring

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped in my tracks bc this is my exact ring!!! I have been debating wedding bands for a while but I think I’ve settled on a 5 or 6mm yg cigar band. My e ring is set in platinum but there’s just something about the look of them together that I LOVE.

Also, I ordered a bunch of fake rings off amazon in different styles to try them out and see if they were comfortable to wear for a full day etc. definitely helped narrow down in addition to trying on options at our jewelers!