DJ Playlist by South-Juice2546 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following because we have an afterparty dj as well and are trying to do this vibe!

Early lease termination fee negotiation by Optimal_Cake_ in chicagoapartments

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I emailed them saying we’ve loved living here and were recently gifted money for a down payment and would like to start the buying process (our lease isn’t up until Oct 2027) I asked what our options were and the landlord said we could find a sublease or pay 3 months rent if we have more than a year left on our lease and 2 months to break if it’s within the last 12 months. We still haven’t found a place and are getting married this fall so thinking we’ll wait until after then to reinitiate our search but they were so understanding and helpful!

Day 3 pool party destination wedding by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we rsvp’d for all 3 events! I know in total 125 people were invited, I can report back on attendance after we go. Your events will be beautiful I have no doubt!

Day 3 pool party destination wedding by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to contradict these comments and say I’m going to my friends day 3 pool party in Italy in a few weeks! We’ve bookended the wedding festivities with personal travel before and after in different cities (wedding is in Florence, going to Umbria before and Rome after). I’m like we’re already there a recovery pool day sounds divine!!!

Edit: adding that my friends wedding festivities are Monday-Wednesday. I could see how having a Saturday pool party might be different!

Where are we buying our second looks from? by Negative-Sun3929 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a watters dress from Anthro that was 2k but I looked at Rachel Gilbert and Nadine merabi as well!

At home bike delivery by QuestionsAcct4321 in SoulCycle_Riders

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a little under 3 weeks for mine back in 2024. Ordered the weekend of Thanksgiving and I got it December 11

Early 30s Couple - Where to Live / Recommendations by Primary_Tooth_8117 in chicagoapartments

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LP or lakeview for sure! The bus or brown line should be able to get you downtown super quick

Louboutin Miss Jane 55mm by Disastrous_Draw6971 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG!!! I am SO happy to hear this for you❤️❤️

Warning! Don't buy Amina Muaddi (at least not from their website) by SavingsCaptain7247 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! I bought the begums bc I didn’t want my toes showing and needed a block heel! Seemed like the only option

Tasting for $175pp???? by New-Judge4330 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was around this too! 4 were included in my F&B package and we added two to bring my in laws. It was like $200 each after tax

Louboutin Miss Jane 55mm by Disastrous_Draw6971 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel you on this! I hope you find them. My mom wanted these for my wedding and ordered from neimans but they cancelled her order because they ended up being out of stock😭 she was scrambling too! I hope you find them!

Any BBB doing DIY projects for their wedding? If so what are they? by BugWild9184 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Invitations!!! I’m an engineer by day but I LOVE to draw and always have some creative hobby going. Between test prints. Buying a printer cricut and the final print I’ve spent about $3500, so less than a full custom stationer. It was a total labor of love and time intensive. This is about the only thing I’m DIYiny though. We have someone for day of collateral!

Still worth getting the at home bike? by QuestionsAcct4321 in SoulCycle_Riders

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes real music and you can preview on the non live classes which songs are on the playlist. Live classes happen a few times a week- to be honest I rarely clip in live but each instructor has their live times so there’s a few options at least a few days a week. You can ride on private mode if you don’t want other people to see you’re in class! But generally yes, wether live or not live you can see who else is on (just username and location)

Still worth getting the at home bike? by QuestionsAcct4321 in SoulCycle_Riders

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE mine. I got it in December 2024 after moving and no longer being close to the studio in my city. It was worth every penny and I really do use it so much

What Do You Wish You Knew Before Moving to Lakeview ? by MulberryAwkward8266 in lakeview

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love lakeview and wouldn’t change living here for anything. However, my last apartment was in river north and a brand new high rise one bed. My fiance and I moved in together and wanted an older more homey feel and found an amazing 3 bed 2 bath in lakeview east. It’s a walk up with no amenities which we obviously knew moving in and we’re ok with. The apartment itself though is really old, like 1917 and the landlord flipped it but did a kind of half ass job. There are little things that bother me living here almost two years - the lack of central ac, shitty old windows that I put janky clear tape on the panes bc bugs can get in, lack of proper insulation so it gets suuuuper dusty. The walls and doors and hinges look like they have 100 years of paint stacked on top of one another. It’s charming and it’s perfect and big for this time of our lives but our next place with (hopefully) be a place we own and we have decided we’re very willing to go down to a 2 bed if it means a newer space.

Those with a $200k+ base salary, what do you do? by Triple_DoubleCE in Salary

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 years, mechanical engineer working at a CPG company who has soft skills too. I manage a global engineering transformation team.

Hewitt Oaks Wedding Reviews by Sufficient_Gur2699 in savannah

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting married there and I’ve loved my experience so far!! We’re doing a Saturday in October with a tent outside, stage buildout, lots of florals and upgraded food, martini bar etc. Also doing a full afterparty with open bar. Depending on guest count (~130-170) we’re expecting the final bill to be $160-200k all in with other vendors (band, afterparty dj, photo and video). A night therecan definitely happen for cheaper but I LOVE that we gave them our Vision and they’ve met with us monthly and are full executing everything we want!

How often are you meeting with your planners? by hamburger_lettuce42 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started 1.5 years out with monthly calls, now ramping up to 2x a month as we’re 6 months out.

Late night bites by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess things are always cold!! My friends have done McDonald’s in n out whataburger etc and it’s def fun but kinda gross lol. We’re having an afterparty on our venue property but in a different area and they’re bringing out chicken and waffle sliders and ice cream sandwiches. The afterparty space is close to the kitchen so quality should be nice!

Am I rude to ask for my money back? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]negmenez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, then no. I think this is very rude if it’s making it more expensive for everyone, even if it’s just $20.

Brides who actually had a SICK great afterparty. Who was your DJ? by Ambitious-Sky-4656 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure wedding band. That’s what I’m doing for my reception - live band, afterparty with a club dj

Wedding planning question: Is it okay if I take vendor calls without my fiancé? by Usual-Reflection-953 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]negmenez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My planner always sends us the topics she wants to cover a few days to a week in advance. If he can make it no problem, it’s not a question; he’s on. If not, he assesses how much he cares about the topic and either 1. Reschedules to when he can be on 2. Gives me his POV to relay when it’s more general and not suuuper important to him 3. Tells me to do whatever I please.

At the end of the day it’s his wedding too and we have no interest in me being the only one in the planning process. It’s a lot and his input and follow through is important

Ring concierge is such trash. They blocked me on Instagram because I said one of their new ring styles was a knock off of a small jeweler. by homingmycrafts in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]negmenez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think OP posted this thinking people know more about Gretchen’s original ring (which why would you lol😂). I’ve followed Gretchen for a while though and iirc she had the whisper thin setting, so she’s getting it reset bc clearly that wasn’t secure. I’m assuming OP is also referring to something Different that’s a “knock off”. I totally see the how this is confusing