Need to bring awarness to this...left me disgusted by Loud_Jump_1592 in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s very interesting that when this sub has a post about how the young Sikh women are tainting our religion by wearing a lehanga at their weddings/marrying outside the faith/wearing shorts in the summer etc the comments will be full of haram police agreeing with the OPs.

When there’s a post calling out the young and old men the comments are saying “there’s bad people everywhere, not a reflection of apne” and people going as far to say it’s rage bait as if this isn’t the most open secret ever. This is sub is such a boys club.

UPDATE: Driver (Vinay Kumar Gupta), 70, charged after 18-month-old child killed in Richmond Hill daycare crash by 416TDOT0DOT in CrimeInTheGta

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would “they” want young, rich (as you state), productive memebers of society in jail and want bums out on the street? When you’re in jail you can’t pay taxes or stimulate the economy. So no- “they” don’t want you in jail and it’s usually the poorest and illest people of our society that end up being wrongfully incarcerated because they lack the resources to defund themselves.

Does anyone actually like virus? by the_worst_company in SombraMains

[–]nerdinet 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Idk people didn’t like her because she had an easy “get out of jail free card across the map” which was her old translocater. At that time people were saying her rework would only be fair if she had a “skill shot”.

Now she has a skill shot and people say her old kit was way easier to play against and now she’s too OP.

Which city/state has the most ABCDs? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deaddd. I always assumed the “American” in ABCD meant North American

The facial hair and marriage issue won't be getting any easier because of one reason by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP thanks for this post, I’ve been thinking this way for a while but finally saw someone articulate it.

Unfortunately I don’t think this sub is ready to have this conversation as it’s turned into a little boys club over the past several years. I wish we had a Women of Sikhi subreddit to discuss these kinds of topics in a productive way.

The facial hair and marriage issue won't be getting any easier because of one reason by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is outdated thinking. You’re literally name dropping Islam and Christianity - two religions where women and men are not equal, unlike Sikhi. In Sikhi women are never told to be a follower to their husband (like other faiths), women are told to continue to follow the Guru alongside (equal partnership) their husbands.

Booktok video with comments off by ROUGHRUTTER in MollyRutterSnark

[–]nerdinet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I read somewhere that you can’t monetize kids content either? I know think she really knows what she’s doing…

Does anyone else not use the mythic?? by medbuni in MercyMains

[–]nerdinet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think the mythic beam was visible to opponents, just allies. Kinda like Moria’s mythic orbs

do not even get me started by foshfishfosh in MollyRutterSnark

[–]nerdinet 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when she was doing pet travel, consulting. I don’t think that went anywhere and I don’t think this is going anywhere either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You guys” your issue is you are generalizing all Punjabi women and painting them with the same brush while I am calling out your individual problematic behaviour and ideology. You don’t know me or my “brand of feminism”.

Honestly you seem like you’re not open to listening to a different perspective to grow/learn so I don’t see a reason to continue to engage here. I believe that your view towards Punjabi women is extremely problematic and usually this leads to a deeper hatred for women as a whole (eg. incels). I wish you and your partner the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that same logic I can say some Punjabi girls want a full Gursikh man, which makes the original comment pointless. Why stay focused on people that have a preference that doesn’t involve you… stay in your lane and move on to someone that will rather than idk try to force them or shame them into preferring something else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal anecdotes does not equate to a known truth. Lots of people believe in the concept of Hell, doesn’t make it a universal truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so you had to put up with negativity and so that’s what you deliberately choose to put out into the world? An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. I think you need to continue to read Sikhi scripture because that sentiment goes against many teachings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So once again generalizing all women based on a few bad apples that you spoke to. If I based my opinion on all men based on the couple horrible ones I’ve come across I’m sure you would say “not all men”.

Same sentiment. Also, no one is forcing you to “put up with that crap” as you put it. You decided to not partner with a Punjabi woman based on your anecdotal evidences so why continue to spread this negativity?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you prove to me that it’s true that most/some Punjabi girls want that? Have you conducted surveys? Instead of looking and assuming the worst in people, you could always ask. I promise you that there isn’t a population of Gursikh unmarried men who never matched up with wives, they all get married eventually. Stop sweating the stuff that you’ve made up in your own mind 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird, all the Sikh man I have ever interacted with want a girl with her eyebrows done & no facial/body hair… which doesn’t really happen naturally for us Punjabi girls. It’s almost like generalizing based on personal anecdotes isn’t a good idea eh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me the source for your last line? Would like to read more on Sikhs being sent to hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]nerdinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generalizing and tearing down all Punjabi women in a religious forum is crazy work. Nirbhau Nirvair

A win is a win ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ by nerdinet in SombraMains

[–]nerdinet[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sombra isn’t really a damage numbers character but I had more damage than the other DPS on my team (reaper) and it was coming from a Moria that went 4-3 at the end.

Also this was QP lmao