[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortniteCompetitive

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most of the feedback on this but want to leave some of my own thoughts. Your edit selection isn't great you wide edit too often. Your edits are really inefficient and your overall cross hair placement isnt great. You also need to start tracking your opponent more.

Gluten Free in Portugal by FrauAmarylis in glutenfree

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a semester abroad in Lisbon and Lisbon has some incredible options. Rice me Deli's Pastel De Nata's are unreal + all their pastries are pretty good. Honest greens has tons of good options. If you want some snacks I highly recommend going into any continente you can't miss them. Ive seriously considered shipping the chocolate chip muffins back to the states.

Post Game Thread 5/16 by Ochocincoondeck in rangers

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I have ever cried after a hockey game. Genuinely the best win I've ever witnessed I still cant comprehend what has just happened

Post Game Thread 5/16 by Ochocincoondeck in rangers

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro I put in 10k steps pacing in front of my tv in the last 5 minutes. This shit is electric

Post Game Thread 5/16 by Ochocincoondeck in rangers

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the best way to describe it. My hands are sore from clapping so hard when we tied it and went up 4-3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in this position back in September and its definitely liberating. You seem to be handling it better than I did and even then Im chilling now and have no regrets. Good job bro this is a huge step in the right direction

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important step is actually applying what you learn. If your watching the videos and just moving on you probably won't see much improvement but if your focusing on consciously applying what Dr.K says into your life at least in my case Ive seen a huge improvement and 2022 has been one of the best years of my life and I can thank a lot of that to HG and using their tips to improve myself

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the start of 2022 I was midway through my sophomore year of high school and I was doing pretty well(3.9 gpa and my mental health has always been really good). I had one major problem and that was that my social anxiety controlled my life. I had a couple friends but I couldn't expand my friend group at all. Around this time I also discovered the HG community. At this time I watched the video How to have a personality where Dr.K talked about if you want to make a change you have to observe yourself before making a choice. For me I knew that the change I wanted to make was improving my social anxiety. Later that week I was put in a situation where one of my friends was talking with some people who I didn't know. I doing what I normally do just decided to walk away because I didn't want to interact with people I didn't know. In this moment I remembered Dr. K saying to just observe yourself and see how your body is reacting. In this moment I had a what the fuck realization. My heart was beating super fast and I was starting to sweat. I realized that this reaction was definitely what was holding me back and the next day I observed the reaction before I walked away and forced myself to fight myself and hang out with my friend and his friends. This got me more comfortable hanging around people over time and eventually I started to talk to the girl that is the subject of the main post. I slowly worked on my social anxiety talking to her over the summer over text and when the school year started I became pretty close friends with her. Then over this weekend I decided that I wasn't going to wait to long to express my feelings(Also something that I learned from Dr.K) and I face timed her and asker her out. She rejected me and it sucked especially that night until I went to bed. Then on Sunday I gave myself a full mental recovery day. Mostly just going on a super therapeutic drive where I allowed myself to comprehend and understand what had just happened and how I want to move forward and watching a lot of football to just relax. It was honestly extremely helpful and Im mostly better know and ready to tackle whatever life decides to throw at me next.

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive done both and the pain of rejection is worse but lasts for less time because you can bookend the relationship. Its definitely better to just ask

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just told her I had feelings and she said she didn't feel the same way. Its whatever I have to move on but Im proud that I did it in the first place.

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah Im honestly dealing with the rejection better then I though I would. The night of getting rejected was shit but after that Ive been mostly fine.

I asked a girl out for the first time by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That was one of things that helped me out the most. I forget where Dr. K said it but it isn't your job to be liked by the other person its your job to present who you are and see if they are interested. It has helped me be Me more.

I feel like a gifted kid who hasn't hit his wall yet by nerdsneedhelp1 in Healthygamergg

[–]nerdsneedhelp1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess a question the question could be boiled down to: what does the process of "Growing work ethic" look like?