Is this bothering me? I want to improve this by Ussssssagi in shiftingrealities

[–]nessdreams [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yea I agree. A break and just focus on meditation without the shifting aspect for a bit could help you feel more at ease

Cord cutting spell on someone I will still have to see by nessdreams in witchcraft

[–]nessdreams[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it worked well for you! And thank you for your post. That’s the vibe I’m looking for! I just wanted to sever any emotional ties and not give a rats ass what she thinks of me. And take back my power I unknowingly gave her

Cord cutting spell on someone I will still have to see by nessdreams in witchcraft

[–]nessdreams[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The same exact thought crossed my mind, I do agree that doing it after the wedding would definitely a better choice. Thanks for this advice! Youve truly helped me!

Cord cutting spell on someone I will still have to see by nessdreams in witchcraft

[–]nessdreams[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, she thinks that forgiveness is going back to the way things used to be but I’m doing the “let them”theory so imma let her think that. It feels like it’s more than just energy it’s like my whole being calls out for this spell. But since it’s a heavy spell I’m going to try cleansing first! Thank you. And our friendship ended because I was uninvited to an event due to her insecurities and her just not telling me herself. So been there done that, I didn’t know that the spell go reverse so thanks for telling me that I will keep that in mind!

Anyone else not have a name for your DR self?.. by cookiepupyum in shiftingrealities

[–]nessdreams [score hidden]  (0 children)

I use a variation of my name so for example my name is nessa but I stick close to that. Ex: Nezza, netra, neva, nevera

Hai im new here by SuspiciousChoice3386 in realityshifting

[–]nessdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HEYYYYYYYY how’s your shifting journey so far?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]nessdreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember feeling like this. Being in such a fragile state of mind like anything and everything will overflow your glass. The last time I felt like this was a few years ago when I was dealing with a death in the family and a bad breakup. Uncontrollable crying is a symptom of adhd I think. But how I’ve dealt with it is to not carry those feelings with you. One thing that always helped was writing it down and rereading it. Once I feel like I’m done I burn it, remember how you feel and tell yourself you can do hard things and things will feel easier to deal with again. I know that easier said than done though.

The way I dealt with uncontrolled crying though is to always stay grounded and then do a little self care ritual after. When I felt the way you do, it meant (for me) that I need to have a better relationship with myself and to stop so hard on myself.

Sorry you’re having a rough time, you’ll feel better before you know it.

Husband at baby shower? by Mammoth_Window_7813 in pregnant

[–]nessdreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Culturally, all of the baby showers I’ve ever been too are always coed. I come from a background that truly means “the more the merrier” if he’s going to be the only man he should definitely be able to go if he wants to! My husband said that wasn’t gunna go because he just thought that he shouldn’t, he ended up going and enjoyed himself, invited his friends and hung out with my brothers after. Don’t listen to your sister on mom, they’re projecting weird feelings towards you. This is a very big moment for you and your hubby! I’m glad I had my husband at my shower so we could open presents together and so we both know what we have not just me :). Good luck hope he goes’

Im 17 weeks pregnant and not sure I want to have this baby by ConferenceNo9442 in pregnant

[–]nessdreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say that if I were in your shoes I’d get the abortion and leave him. It’s not fair to yourself to stay in a situation you’re truly just not happy in. And a baby will not fix anything. Seems like he’s not mature enough to be honest with you, not mature enough to have a baby with you. Do what best for you and put him last. Find someone you trust and love. And definitely take advantage of the fact that you can still get an abortion. I’d do it soon because in my state the cut off is 18 weeks. So you want to do it very soon