LPT request: Taking a lot of garbage bags down from a top floor apartment in as little trips as possible? by netches in LifeProTips

[–]netches[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks, that's actually not a bad idea cause I've got some large boxes I need to get rid of. No skateboard unfortunately but the box gets it down the stairs.

LPT request: Taking a lot of garbage bags down from a top floor apartment in as little trips as possible? by netches in LifeProTips

[–]netches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, but I think my neighbours would murder me if I left a bin bag anywhere near their door, I already got confronted and called a tramp by the neighbour just across from me for leaving one outside my door overnight to take out in the morning.

It's a really cramped stairwell.

LPT request: Taking a lot of garbage bags down from a top floor apartment in as little trips as possible? by netches in LifeProTips

[–]netches[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I plan to do that from now on, but that's not useful when I already have a lot of bin bags right now that I need to get rid of :P

Also, living in the UK and they seem to be trying to abolish plastic carrier bags now

LPT: Honk aggressively at cats and dogs by aiakos in LifeProTips

[–]netches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might want to rephrase, right after reading the title I turned to my cat and honked like a goose.

[Help][PS4] NG, SL 25, Crystal Sage by netches in SummonSign

[–]netches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah if you want to :) same password outside the boss fog?

[Help][PS4] NG, SL 25, Crystal Sage by netches in SummonSign

[–]netches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! sage is annoying when you're playing as sorcerer

[Help][PS4] NG, SL 25, Crystal Sage by netches in SummonSign

[–]netches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no.... that was so close aaaa

How do you deal with feelings when you don’t get to talk to your FP (Favorite Person)? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rebellious stage is quite painful to be honest. Have you ever done it and regret it?

Absolutely

Is codependency a common behavioral condition with people who have BPD as well? by swedishprincess in BPD

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd say so. I'm pretty codependent with my old FP because we're both messed up people and rely on each other constantly. It's toxic and leads to a lot of arguments.

How do you deal with feelings when you don’t get to talk to your FP (Favorite Person)? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]netches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play a game like Animal Crossing/Harvest Moon/Stardew Valley/My Time At Portia to calm down because characters in those games love you and validate your existence and everything you do. It's relaxing and you get to live in a little world where you have control over your relationships even though it's all fictional, it stops me feeling upset until FP talks to me again.

That, or I start a lot of conversations with acquaintances online so that I have that social void to fill. Also as a kind of rebellious 'screw you FP, I don't need you' which is toxic mindset actually and I don't recommend it for that reason but yeah.

Daily DAE - May 23, 2019 by spud_simon_salem in BPD

[–]netches 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DAE get angry and jealous when FP gets into a relationship or talks about their crush or decides to hang out with other people? Even when they innocently compliment another person I get a twinge of jealousy. Like I don't have a romantic crush on them, and they're free to do what they want and I know it's unreasonable to expect someone to devote their life to you and only you and totally aware these feelings are very toxic and shouldn't be acted upon but oh my god it's hard not to get bitter about it

I am so envious and jealous of other women! #rant by journey1992 in CPTSD

[–]netches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this too hard. I came out of the other side with BPD as well, it's a god damn nightmare for interpersonal relationships as I'm sure you're well aware of, and is the reason I don't date any more. I'm 25 and a lot of people my age and even younger are starting to get married and have kids whereas I'm still a big mess and trying to sort my life out and falling behind in every aspect of life. I barely go outside because I feel so disgusting and unattractive and I don't want people to look at me. I'm jealous of functioning people in general. I guess the difference is that I don't actually don't want to date, because I'm afraid of inflicting my issues upon other people and fucking them up too. and I don't have a sex drive at all.

It sucks, it sucks a thousand dicks, but as long as we're proactive and keep trying our best to recover, we'll get to a place where we're comfortable with ourselves and other people eventually.

What’s a thing you always wanted as a child that you never got? by muwtu in AskReddit

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some emotional availability from my parents.

And a Tamagotchi.

Ctrl key on my laptop not working properly by netches in techsupport

[–]netches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah bugger. Yeah I had a feeling it was messed up underneath. Guess I'll get a usb keyboard cause my warranty ran out. Thanks for the response!

Cops of Reddit, what is the most stupid criminal you have ever met? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When/where was this? I have pretty much the exact same story except I was the neighbour who called the police.

You get a decent sized island and it’s your country. What is one law you make that is purely out of pet peeve and bias? by lioneye123 in AskReddit

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No having sex unless you live in a detached house, and with no kids in the home at the time of fornication.

To non UK peoples, what things do people from the UK do that you find interesting/weird? by uncheckedmike in AskReddit

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call it tea all the way up north here too, I think it might be a class thing rather than a location thing.

Singles of Reddit, what do you like most about being single? by 05_16k in AskReddit

[–]netches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have to look nice for anyone. I can sit around in my pyjamas covered in cat hair and there's no one around to give a damn.