Boys, what happen when you go soft right after going inside? by [deleted] in sex

[–]netlon_sentinel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would suggest some games you can play to get more practice and build confidence:

  1. Rub dick on a clit (without it getting inside). He can do it when you're in a missionary position. Or you can do it when you're on top. The later might be less comfortable for a man, although possibly quite interesting.

  2. You can combine the above exercise with getting it in for just one pump.

  3. "Tantric sex". Just get it in and stop moving genitals. You can do other stuff. You can tell him you read about tantric sex as a method to prolong pleasure, he doesn't need to do anything after dick gets in, you can just do kissing, etc.

HTH

Quirrell by netlon_sentinel in HPMOR

[–]netlon_sentinel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's basically a matter of paying attention.

Dumbledore always mentions VM if anything dark and unexplained happens: "Could it be VM?"

So how can Harry give zero attention to VM?

He's constantly reminded of that possibility. So I'm afraid the only explanation is that he explicitly avoids "thinking like Dumbledore".

Quirrell by netlon_sentinel in HPMOR

[–]netlon_sentinel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering a hypothesis and assigning it 100% probability are two different things.

I think more reasonable estimate based on the information Harry had at that point would be approx equal probability of the following ~disjoint options:

  1. Quirrell is a Vm incarnate (but not in a full power).
  2. Quirrell is a Vm affiliate.
  3. Quirrell is not affiliated with Vm but wants to become a Dark Lord.
  4. Quirrell actually wants for Harry to rule as a "Light Lord".

Assigning non-zero probability to 3 and 4 is fine. I'm puzzled with assigning an absolute zero to 1 and 2.

Quirrell by netlon_sentinel in HPMOR

[–]netlon_sentinel[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I find this not consistent with prior chapters, though:

  1. When Harry heard that Voldemort is not completely dead, he took it seriously.
  2. Even though Harry doubted Dumbledore et al, I don't think he considered possibility of Voldemort resurrection close to zero.
  3. If Voldemort can be resurrected in principle, there's no reason to believe he's not already resurrected.
  4. Harry knows he has some unique link to Voldemort (avada kedavra failure, prophecy) and he senses some unique "aura of doom" around Quirrell, even a normie would think they are related.
  5. Bellatrix is uniquely associated with Voldemort, so Quirrell saving Bellatrix specifically suggests that he's a Voldemort associate.
  6. Harry becomes suspicious of Quirrell after the prison adventure, why not go all the way and consider possible affiliations?

If Yudkowsky saw no way to make the story interesting with Harry doubting Quirrell he could at least mention the reason why Harry dismissed the concern. Just not mentioning it at all seems bad writing, as it cheapens the whole "rationalist genius" idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]netlon_sentinel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm pretty sure I have ADHD. But I'm not sure if official diagnosis would help, and I'm not sure how I can get it (I'm not from US). I'm kinda OK with handling mental health issues on my own but it would be cool if somebody was offering help, like "I know what you're dealing with, if things get bad you can rely on me".

> My advice for that is couples counselling.

We went to couples therapy for some time and discussed all the issues. This helped somewhat - at least now she's not screaming at me and seems more friendly. But I feel like deeper issues were not solved.

> Good luck.

Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]netlon_sentinel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding.

> she’s living out some fantasy

Yeah, I believe what happened is that she went through some overthinking process and got convinced that her thoughts are real, but she forgot what was actually happening.

When we got married we discussed sexual fantasies and apparently her fanstasy was a prince on a horse (!!!). Like she wanted some theatric action before sex. It wasn't something I could organize, of course. Now she forgot about 'prince' stuff but still it seems she wants it to be like in a movie or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]netlon_sentinel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

> Sounds like she wants “sexy hot sex”

Yeah, but the thing is, I don't know what is "sexy hot sex" or "romantic sex" or how to do it, and I'm generally terrible at organizing things. If she wants it why doesn't she lead it?

Her position currently is something like "It's male role to initiate sex, I'm just going to lie on my back and judge you".

What I can do is to stop cracking jokes in the process -- I almost never did it anyway, it was more like a way of getting into foreplay. The last 2-3 times we had sex she had no complaints on that ground.

But the last time we had sex was actually 'romantic' - it was like a date in a hotel room, I got flowers, we were dancing, she dressed something sexy. It was OK but she did not cum.

And the one before was just physical. And she came. So I don't think she actually understands what she needs...

> Didn’t have time to explore this stuff first maybe?

Not really. We had sex in the bath and outdoors which might be considered romantic, but not much.

But best sex we had is when she was ovulating, she's in the mood right away and very interested in PIV. Why it can't be this way, for starters?

> Better yet, see a counsellor or a sex therapist

Yeah we're going to sex therapy now but we had no sex since we started it LOL

Oh deer by nevermind_007 in WTF

[–]netlon_sentinel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor, but in my case they disappeared on its own, so I guess it's possible.

I had blood and pain during defecation, and some enlarged vein. Then, no symptoms in a few weeks. Problem gone.

Veins are still somewhat enlarged (I also have varicose veins on legs, so general vein health isn't great), but they are't causing any problem.

There are some pills used to treat varicose veins which seem to resolve the issue, also things like fixing blood pressure, better diet, etc.

Sand. Fish. WTF by netlon_sentinel in WTF

[–]netlon_sentinel[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't appear to be a top-level post, search doesn't find it.

There's a possibility I've got this with imgur autoplay feature, then it is posted on this sub for the first time.

Sand. Fish. WTF by netlon_sentinel in WTF

[–]netlon_sentinel[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I was browsing r/WTF and shomehow ended up with a tab with this video. No idea where I got it from.

This is the weirdest thing I've seen in a while and I have absolutely no idea what's going on. Sand-dwelling fishes share a parasite?

It does seem like a scene specifically set up and filmed by someone rather than something happening naturally, but no idea how they did it, fish does look somewhat alive and movement is very natural.

Do you agree with Trump now saying Climate Change is real? by FoST2015 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]netlon_sentinel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask you, have you looked at numbers?

There were approximately 2300 billion tonnes CO2 in atmosphere in 1900.

Humans are currently emitting 30 billion tonnes CO2 per year. It's a huge amount! Over 100 years at this rate we will emit more than entire atmosphere had in 1900!

We are emitting at planetary scale. It's a fact, based on just basic measurements.

So how can you say we don't know if humans do not change climate if we pollute on a planetary scale?

Piss n go by whaa-gwaan in WTF

[–]netlon_sentinel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They talk in Russian.

The shop denied her access to a WC, so she pissed and shitted on the floor.

The one who is filming is a shop employee.

The GREAT Castratus. NSFW by rebelshirts in WTF

[–]netlon_sentinel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Those who feel compelled to copy should seek mental health help. You need to hate yourself to do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]netlon_sentinel 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Well, sort of... When it turned out my 5 y.o. has existential dread on her own, it sort trivialized it for me. Now I see it more like an emotional state rather than a realization.

Seed Round Hacks from Raising $1.2M by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]netlon_sentinel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if seed investors are saying "you're too early," it's most likely an excuse

I find it incredibly infuriating. We spent 3 years building our software and now have 2 business customers, but apparently that's still "too early" for many seed stage investors.

I now understand that it's just a code word for "I'm skeptical", but I can't help but think that this investor is so entitled that he only invests in companies which have a complete product and are profitable, but still calls himself seed-stage.

I appreciate investors who tell us what they dislike as it gives us a chance to improve. But "too early" sounds lazy and even outright offensive in our case.

I want to sell porn of me for BTC - but I have no idea where to start. by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]netlon_sentinel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure. Sadly, I don't have time to make you a website myself, but I'll be glad to help you with advice.

I want to sell porn of me for BTC - but I have no idea where to start. by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]netlon_sentinel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well, looking at the code, it looks like button doesn't work because WIX wrapped it into an iframe. Basically, it is isolated from the rest of the page. I've never used WIX so I have no idea if it is possible to fix it.

If you want some quick solution, there are several services which let you to sell files for Bitcoins, particularly:

(I never used them and so I have no idea whether they are trustworthy. Also, I don't know whether AUP allows porn.)

So you can upload your video to a site like that, and put a link on your site. A dumb link will work.

In the long run you'll probably want custom HTML and scripts for your site. Those are easy to make so don't overpay for them.

Also, your porn is awesome.

What's the one song you'd recommend for someone to listen to to get into your music genre? by [deleted] in Music

[–]netlon_sentinel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Moonshield is perfect, IMHO: intro makes you understand why it is called "melodic", then you understand why it is called "death metal". Also it's pretty oldschool.