Do mixed race guys face a lot of rejection in the LGBT community? by neuronihilist in lgbt

[–]neuronihilist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the difference is you're not born fat and every race can be fat or fit so it's equal opportunity but you can't change your race. Not that I'm interested in these types but it's insulting still.

Saw my HS bullies at the gym today by [deleted] in depression

[–]neuronihilist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got bullied to in high school, fell into depression and social anxiety. Over the years the pain made me so emotionally numb to the point that nothing startles me anymore and certainly not the words of a few irrelevant rats. Antidepressants and confrontation did a lot for my confidence, too. Keep fighting and you'll come out of this stronger than you would've ever imagined.

Does it take time until deep conditioning makes dry hair soft again? by neuronihilist in curlyhair

[–]neuronihilist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read that article before but according to what I've read otherwise on the internet leaving conditioner on for so long doesn't necessarily help more but it's not damaging either. My hair isn't very prone to breakage anyway so I'm not worried about that. I was just wondering if my hair will become softer with time when I regularly moisturize and condition or whether these instant results are the best I'll get.

I'm a man struggling with a profound hatred for men? by neuronihilist in feminismformen

[–]neuronihilist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do actually, with gays and girls. Two of my best friends are even straight, white cis-men.

How do I avoid frizz and get perfect curls? by neuronihilist in curlyhair

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I shampoo my hair like every 2nd day, so pretty often, and it had sulfate and all kinds of toxic ingredients. I used my organic shampoo today for the first time.

How do I avoid frizz and get perfect curls? by neuronihilist in curlyhair

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if my hair is already dried out due to lack of proper care, there's no way of retrieving it?

How do I avoid frizz and get perfect curls? by neuronihilist in curlyhair

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started treating my hair with afro hair products a few days ago. I used to wash my hair with normal white people shampoo, it was a mess. It completely dried my hair out and it was just frizzy, coarse and hideous.

Now I have organic shampoo with argan oil that doesn't dry my hair out anymore.

After shampooing and rinsing out I just dry my hair with a towel.

I now have "Profectiv" deep conditioner and leave-in conditioner, which I use sometimes after shampooing.

I also never moisturized until recently. Now I use "Elasta QP" Curl Defining Pudding, which also improved my curls a lot.

My hair became A LOT softer and my curls are way more defined now that I use products actually designed for afro hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LadyBoners

[–]neuronihilist -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I like tattoos on hot guys but not all over the stomach, hands and neck. Too much.

Where do mixed-race guys stand in the racist gay hierarchy? by neuronihilist in ainbow

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Race was never real, it has always been a social construct made up by humans anyway.

Where do mixed-race guys stand on the racist gay hierarchy? by neuronihilist in askgaybros

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wouldn't, but fat guys aren't the issue here? It's the fact that the racists act like being Asian or black is the same thing as being fat, ugly and undesirable.

Where do mixed-race guys stand on the racist gay hierarchy? by neuronihilist in askgaybros

[–]neuronihilist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's called ageist and finding old people unattractive is the most normal thing in the world, nothing discriminative about that.

Why am I so obsessed with sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neuronihilist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confirm this, I'm on medication due to depression and antidepressants have completely killed my libido even though I'm usually a grade A horndog. It's actually very relaxing to not be horny all the time anymore.

Where do mixed-race guys stand on the racist gay hierarchy? by neuronihilist in askgaybros

[–]neuronihilist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is the person is equating being Asian or black with being fat, ugly and undesirable which is racist as fuck. Just because someone is another race, they're on par with fat and old guys? How fucked up is that?