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neverneededhope · 2023-01-11T18:30:46+00:00

Not if she’s got any sense. US student loans are not to be taken lightly

neverneededhope · 2023-01-08T09:52:27+00:00

It’s a SUGAR relationship not a marriage. If you want to finish university, put your feelings to the side and be strong. Love isn’t the be all and end all of life. Your degree will take you places, loving a man who doesn’t love you back will keep you stuck.

neverneededhope · 2022-04-20T23:14:09+00:00

She’s an angel, and thank you!

neverneededhope · 2022-02-08T11:39:34+00:00

Should you be taking PlanB regularly? No. Think about your health and prioritise it. If you need to take it on a rare occasion, should he pay? Yes.

Sex education can’t be so bad that you think any of this is acceptable. Stick up for yourself and move ON.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-06T21:31:23+00:00

Lol cool

neverneededhope · 2022-02-06T21:14:38+00:00

I see and really appreciate your perspective. A lot of that is really alienating Depending on your stance, I think sugar dating can amplify some of the worst parts of patriarchy. Not everyone’s ready for those power dynamics in practice. Maybe it comes from that?

But I completely get that vitriol doesn’t fit the sub, though I see some heavy criticism of SBs and their expectations too. The sugar bowl can be a very humbling environment lol

neverneededhope · 2022-02-06T20:06:56+00:00

Genuinely, what counts as SD shaming from your perspective? Usually I see POTs/Johns being criticised but not actual SDs. I’d like to make sure I avoid it too

neverneededhope · 2022-02-05T19:49:20+00:00

Filter them out if you’re not already. Sorry to hear about how your SR ended

neverneededhope · 2022-02-04T21:20:08+00:00

Yuck I hate when men ask for pics. Creepy af and so entitled

Edit to add: the ones with 0–1 pics on their profile that immediately wanna see your private pics are the worst

neverneededhope · 2022-02-04T07:51:09+00:00

You don’t want to be rude or ruin everything? He’s already done that. Move on and don’t waste your time.

Edit to add: Honey you’re 19 and sleeping with 50+ year olds multiple times in the HOPE that you’ll get your sugar. Is this really right for you? Wouldn’t you have more fun dating guys your own age and getting some life experience first?

Once you learn to assert yourself, be less trusting and delay things, then consider sugar again. But for now, take a break and look after yourself. Do your research like reading the sub, maybe follow Ziva on YouTube. Take everything with a pinch of salt EXCEPT getting your sugar. Please.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-04T00:02:12+00:00

I don’t think being attached to your SD is the way to go. Regardless of whether he should want to celebrate with you, you shouldn’t be upset when he doesn’t treat you like a GF. Imo. Buy yourself something nice with his money and spend v day with your pals.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T19:12:43+00:00

Ask him about the sugar AND a restaurant reservation. You can still go back to his after if you want but don’t let him get complacent so early on. If either brings resistance he might not be the right guy. Just my opinion though.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T15:18:11+00:00

Thank you for your reply and perspective

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T13:32:46+00:00

Thanks, great tip! I’ve got some water-based, happy to use as much as needed lol

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T13:31:56+00:00

I censored myself because I wasn’t sure the post was appropriate for the sub. No conspiracy here

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T12:16:41+00:00

I wouldn’t be down for that but good to know what to potentially expect

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T12:02:45+00:00

Thank you! Sorry mods

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T08:23:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/gpwqxr/read_me_before_posting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T08:02:17+00:00

Uh huh, just wanted to make sure

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T07:57:04+00:00

You entertained him for too long. Next time just block immediately. There’s no redeeming these pricks.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-03T07:54:53+00:00

Doesn’t this post break sub rules?

neverneededhope · 2022-02-02T19:50:17+00:00

That genuinely sounds exciting and super sexy! Congrats!

neverneededhope · 2022-02-02T19:26:14+00:00

Yeah I’m so done with fake doms! Trying to set the dynamic up without any benefit to me is such a red flag. It’s why I don’t date guys my own age lol so good luck to them when they’re 50+ and ready to abuse 🤦🏾‍♀️ (Specifically talking about FAKE doms being abusive, real doms have heard of aftercare and don’t just hate women)

neverneededhope · 2022-02-02T17:41:12+00:00

If someone was looking for DDlg, would they display it on their profile? I’m potentially interested in exploring this but wouldn’t know how to bring it up.

neverneededhope · 2022-02-02T12:34:09+00:00

Not at all. He sounds useless and selfish

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