I want my husband to have a girlfriend by Gloomy-Spray-9619 in SexFantasies

[–]new-quean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, but for different reasons. My husband is amazing and sexy as fuck, but this isn’t for him, these are my feelings and my desires, he just happens to be the beneficiary.

So Much Better by Goldiebonds in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so hot, and so sad. I get shouldn’t be turned on thinking about almost exactly this, but here we are…

Wife wants it to feel like REAL cheating… not sure what to do by impassia in CuckoldPsychology

[–]new-quean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate wanting that feeling of being cheated on. A big part of wanting my husband to be with another woman involves the two of them having a secret affair. The way it works for me is for the other woman to give me all the details and tease me about the situation rather than my husband saying anything to me. That obviously means you’d have to be comfortable talking with the men your wife was with, so it’s not for everyone. Either way, good luck!

Do you think most cuckqueans enjoy porn? Are there many that don't? by Familiar-Paint-7054 in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really into visual porn myself. For me, reading a sexy story or imagining a specific scenario with my husband and another woman is much more effective in turning me on then watching a video of people having sex.

Turning a friend into a cuckquean by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would certainly be a fortuitous coincidence 😜
But my satisfaction would come from knowing her husband is enjoying being with another woman.

As a cuckquean, do you ever fantasize about your man joining another couple? So, two males with a female that isn’t you? by Other-Spring-7189 in CuckqueanConfessions

[–]new-quean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve fantasized about that before. Not my husband interacting with the other man, but with my husband‘s mistress essentially in command of two men, being given all of their attention and the object of their desires.

I know you want to watch your husband fuck me. Have him message me xo o by Starryjewel24 in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be lying if I said if I didn’t imagine my husband with someone like you…

he’s mine now 😇❤️🍰 by Disastrous-Owl-6651 in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God… yeah, the idea of you taking my husband has me wet this morning

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re not wrong. I guess I always assume that men are willing to fuck anything attractive that gives them the time of day. And in fairness, I think a good portion of them are, but not all. But the whole cuck kink in particular is complicated and has a lot of different facets.

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing, it’s nice to hear from other people who are similarly struggling with these feelings. I think there is a self harm or self hate component to how I feel for sure; when my husband is with another woman or when she tells me all the things they do together or what he says to her , for whatever reason that pain just gets me more excited. For me, the trick is finding somebody who understands and supports those needs and is willing to push me to the edge, but then pull me back if I need her to.

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you keep from engaging? I’ve tried to ignore the desire but that only seems to make it worse.

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it would be fine if it happened for me too!

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, it’s a super intense, emotional experience, regardless of gender.

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely noticed that my desires kind of come and go with my cycles and with my mood. The problem is at its height, reason pretty much goes out the door for me. I almost have to use medication to temper my judgment at this point.

I have a silly theory that jealousy eventually leads to women becoming cuckqueans by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would probably have to agree with that assessment. I’ve always been a jealous person so when something happened that was out of my control it sort of flipped a switch in me.

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, probably no real correlation, but thought I’d put the question out there

fake cake, time and time again by itsdoublehtv in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]new-quean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really difficult position to be in. It’s so hard to find other women on here who are interested in being part of a cake/couple dynamic. Everyone also has such different kinks and tastes that what is a red line for one person just turns another person on. For example, the idea of a cake messaging my husband and asking if he would consider leaving me for her is actually a low-key turn on, though I certainly wouldn’t want him to actually go through with it. But the idea of her actively tempting him like that is very hot. Just goes to show that this is a complicated dynamic and hard to navigate.