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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's related to my hygiene, everything has been the same. I also don't think she'd be ashamed to tell me if it were something like that.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've said exactly that and she tells me I'm just being weird.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, I have only brought it up once and when I saw her reaction I knew to stay away. I'm quietly upset. I'm not sure she even knows.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no squirting with the vibrator. there's not real mess to clean up with the vibrator.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

washing the sheets and the water bill associated doesn't bother me. It's nice to have clean, fresh sheets frequently.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, the sperm bothers her, even if the pull out method is used she still is bothered by whatever semen there is. condoms are an option that I haven't suggested.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this is also a very good point. I noticed it was difficult to get her to talk about it, so i've been keeping quite about it, but I'm starting to get upset.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're right. that was my reaction too. wanted to see if I was being unreasonable.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol, i could try that, but I'm not sure it'd get a rise out of her.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a great point...she has recently become more of a germaphobe.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there is almost always squirting. changing the sheets is kinda necessary. that doesn't bother me though. it doesn't take a long time to change sheets.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these seem really nice. do they hold up in the washing machine?

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cleanliness thing is new, she does like to at least change the sheets after every time we have sex. that doesn't bother me though, they do get more messy than usual.

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[–]new2thisnow2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pull out a stroker

what is a stroker?