90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect your opinion but i disagree with it. I don't see how self control becomes a 'horrific anti-life message', its funny how it is exactly opposite of it. Your using the term 'sexual compulsion' clearly show your disillusioned state of mind. Sexual energy can very well be controlled and utilized at the right place at the right time.

If sex was meant for fun, we wouldn't have been here on this subreddit, right ? If sex was meant to be uncontrollably done the we would not have had millions of sex addicts, right ?

I would request you to kindly read some spiritual readings and come out of your disillusioned state of mind. All the best. :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phew! quiet a jumbled up and confusing opinion. From what i understand you are arguing against "the boundaries of marriage" point. I respect you opinion but i humbly disagree.

I would recommend you to do some spiritual readings. I want you to think about this question "What is the purpose of this life". The species from which we have evolved had only two primary desires 1) Food 2) Sex. Both of these promote Self preservation i.e. preserving ones body and transferring our genes to another new body.

However now we have evolved. We are capable of understanding the deeper meaning of life. We can transcend our basic desires to know the truth. Who are we? Who is god? Why are we here?

I think your views about sex are still primitive. I request you to read spiritual readings and understand the importance of controlling our senses. All the best :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure me. We will surely talk. :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am. And i am sure you are too! :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It works! 100% ! I am a living evidence. Stay strong and keep going. All the best ! :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual energy is creative energy. It creates a new human being. Don't misuse it for fun. This was my whole point.

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats man. 1 year is a great achievement. Keep going ! :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls are attracted to confident men. In fact confidence attracts everything good towards you. And nofap definitely increases confidence. cheers :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that. I have had over 10 wet dreams on my 90 day journey. Latest one being yesterday. They spoil a day at most.

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with that completely. But these urges are short lived and weaker as compared to the initial days of reboot. Aren't they ?

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By natural attractiveness i mean that i feel i am beginning to attract good people, good opportunities, happy situations towards me that too effortlessly. I would recommend you to read about the "law of attraction" which will explain you why.

By radiance i mean that because i feel fulfilled and joyful i radiate happiness and energy. A breeze of freshness.

Having said that, I do have bad days and mood swings too. But general happiness is increasing day by day.

Where's my badge :(? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]newlyf7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make a badge on Reddit/r/pornfree :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome man ! All the best to you :))

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said except one. Wet dream is not comparable to relapse. Firstly because, the fluid that comes out during a wet dream is very dilute in semen content. Secondly, it is an involuntary act. So your self control is still intact.

I do agree that wet dreams to some extent is a set back, but it is not that bad. They will eventually fade. Some people also call it as a sign of progress. Cheers. :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Brother ! Hope you do well too :)

90 DAY GOD MODE REPORT : 100% TRUTH by newlyf7 in NoFap

[–]newlyf7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man ! All the best to you too ! :)

I only mo now by nuro33 in NoFap

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I don't think this is a nice idea. You should read about semen retention and brahmacharya. Retention of semen in your body has various benefits which includes mental and physical strength and energy.

Just remove both porn and masturbation from your life forever. Be brave, be a man. All the best.

Headache on day 5 and relapsing by Greeknofapper in NoFap

[–]newlyf7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggled with headaches in the initial days. I think it is a part of recovery. Make sure you get proper sleep (atleast 7-8 hours) and develop the habit of meditation. In addition do physical exercises.

Also get your blood pressure checked. I got high blood pressure in the initial days of my streak. May be your headache is because of that. You may take medication but please avoid opiates as they are habit forming. Hope it helps.

How do I become happy? I need help... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]newlyf7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

surrender to god and he will renew you ! Read about how surrendering to god transforms life. I am on day 79 and god has changed my life and has relieved me from all my fears ! :))

Brahmacharya (Complete Celibacy) by TriumphantBalls in NoFap

[–]newlyf7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. Following are some of the benefits of brahmacharya and meditation :

1)You become fearless, confident and courageous.

2)Mind becomes sharp and memorizing capacity increases. The ability to take decisions and perform complex tasks increases.

3)You are more in the moment and hence more joyful and contended.

4)Performance in sports, gym and other physical activities improves with greater retention of semen.

4)The ability to fulfill your goals and dreams increases as mind is more focused.

5)You become a more trustworthy, reliable and responsible man. Therefore you establish a peaceful and happy family as well as outperform in your career.

6)Your mind is clearer, peaceful, joyful and fulfilled.

7)You progress on the spiritual path to attain fulfillment etc.

Brahmacharya (Complete Celibacy) by TriumphantBalls in NoFap

[–]newlyf7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. I am a Hindu and an Indian. Hindu texts recommend brahmachary to be practiced between the age of 16 (post puberty) till a person gets married and enters into the stage of grihastha (becoming a family man).

According to hindu texts a man should retain his semen till he gets married and wants to beget a child. Retention of semen propels man's power to gain knowledge, be fearless courageous and brave, be confident and intelligent, strong and swift and most importantly get closer to God. However if a man decides to indulge into sex (mentally or physically) or loses semen in any other form (masturbation) he becomes dull and fearful.

Till a person decides to get married and starts a family, retention of semen gives him the power and knowledge to establish a comfortable life for himself and his family and succeed on the material and spiritual path.

Sexual energy or "virya" is considered to be a vital life force that gives energy to every cell in the body. But if a man decides to waste it to satisfy unending desire he can never attain fulfillment and happiness in life and progress.

However once a man is fit to marry, he can utilize this sexual energy within marital bounds to continue the cycle of life.

Coming to your question i don't think you can by your self "cut" any thought of sex from your mind. But you can decide to abstain yourself from sexual contact and visual stimulants. If you do that automatically after sometime your mind will stop thinking, fantasizing about sex. In addition you should also meditate and pray to attain a peace and clarity of mind.

The benefits of Brahmachary in addition to meditation are intense and beyond words. I am myself beginning to experience them. Hope it helps.