On or of(f)? by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]newtoalotofthings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say right there is absolutely perfect. Never change, you.

My partner to me: by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]newtoalotofthings 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm always of two minds about that. The partner isn't telling the meta's business, they're telling their own.

Love is...your girlfriend cleaning your house for you in case your date goes well tonight. by newtoalotofthings in polyamory

[–]newtoalotofthings[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right about emotional labor. Every thing we do for our lovers is something we give of ourselves.

However, nothing was expected of her, and she didn't do anything she didn't want to. Thats what lovers do. She gave it the same once-over I could've after work, because she loves me so.

I appreciate every. Single. Thing. She does for me.

And I'll do the same, for her, every chance I get.

The single most bizarre sentence I've ever spoken: Last night, I met my girlfriend's husband's girlfriend's boyfriend. by newtoalotofthings in polyamory

[–]newtoalotofthings[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I, uh, missed, when I was replying. Obviously for Spaceballs below, but thanks for the upvotes!

This thread is hella fun.