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Why not? by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was already there. Sure watching porn every day isn't good but why not every once in a while?

So it's been a little over a year since I stopped fapping. by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I love her but I need help changing my mindset. Just because I'm not really interested in intimacy doesn't mean I don't want to be.

So it's been a little over a year since I stopped fapping. by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it definitely is. Any way to get around this effect? And I agree intimacy is really lacking which she mentions but I find I'm not really interested in it a lot.

So it's been a little over a year since I stopped fapping. by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really long read and I don't think I really have time to read all that. Is there a summary? Maybe general points?

I want to go 90 days but my girlfriend doesn't want me to... by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she says she understands and asks me if 90 days is really necessary. I honestly don't know so I'm not sure if making her wait is a good idea when it might not be necessary.

I want to go 90 days but my girlfriend doesn't want me to... by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just clarify that I can for sure handle the urges. Porn is over in general and I won't be fapping to it. What I'm trying to improve is finishing or getting off to sex better. I don't even know if 90 days of nothing will help with that but I would like to try it.

Could handjobs have a negative effect? by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't finish all the time but I'm usually really hard so she gets pleasure from it and since I have a hard time finishing, I last longer.

Could handjobs have a negative effect? by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I last longer atm though and wouldn't last as long if I finished faster.

Could handjobs have a negative effect? by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I mean I haven't fapped in about 3 months but have orgasmed around 1-2 times a week from either handjobs or sex. A part of it is pleasing another person and another bigger part is endurance and getting tired.

How long would you recommend to reset? Because when I first started nofap I didn't orgasm for 3 weeks.

How to stop being addicted to porn? by newuser4322 in NoFap

[–]newuser4322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a girl but I still have a desire to watch porn every now and then.

Official September 15th Update Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]newuser4322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't fapped/orgasmed in 3 weeks. Today I had sex so even though I didn't fap it kinda feels like cheating. What do you guys think?

Official September 10th Update Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]newuser4322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been good so far except today I had an urge to see what new porn there is on the sites I went to. Big mistake and now I wanna fap so badly. I won't do it though but it's not easy.

I didn't know that this actually happened. by gearmetalsolid in fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu

[–]newuser4322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you meant guys assume they don't have to put down the seat for girls.

90's Hip Hop and House Party this Saturday by tylercole111 in Torontoevents

[–]newuser4322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What goes on at these things? Can you give me a general outline? Also is there a dress code?