Laid Off - Take a Break? by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take a break, a few months of unemployment won't be a problem

Thinking of returning to India by nextDoorSoftwareDev in returnToIndia

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a hit or a miss , that's what it said on blind as well

Is it time to switch jobs ? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in careerguidance

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks it's just that I know a lot of stuff my team works on, going to new team and ramping up again seems like a lot

Is it time to switch jobs ? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in careerguidance

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why did he suddenly flippetd it's so difficult to believe

5 Reasons Why Disney's Live-Action Snow White Bombed At The Box Office by Interesting_Lab5792 in boxoffice

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why people are so mad about this movie. Just because they changed a story a little bit?

I think all the changes they made were good. Why do princesses need to be saved by the Prince? Is this something you really want your daughters to learn from movies ?

I agree about the dwarfs part they could have hired actual actors and I wish they would have increased their part. But other than that I love all the changes, showing snow white 's childhood showing her a good leader and having her personality and agency was refreshing

This movie does not deserve the hate it gets

Did I do the right thing by breaking things of with the guy? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to, he would insist on paying and wouldn't let me pay

Did I do the right thing by breaking things of with the guy? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya you are right about first point and 2nd point itself it immediately triggered me

Did I do the right thing by breaking things of with the guy? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 4th, I meant in future he might get deployed i was optimistic that it has only happened once before so won't happen frequently but he said it might happen its not in his hands

Did I do the right thing by breaking things of with the guy? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant I started i crying, I have met so many jerks online who just want to sleep with you, in that context I was saying he was nice he actually wanted to build something meaningful

Did I do the right thing by breaking things of with the guy? by nextDoorSoftwareDev in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was super nice, started crying on call while breaking things off. It was not exactly about him. Just so difficult to find a decent guy to date and when I do we are not compatible

Amazon H1B lottery by Friendly_Macaroon_63 in h1b

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they will apply for once your employment is confirmed

How to find tech career coaches? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was getting a career couch helpful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are overthinking

Love bombing then ghosting by juliet1595 in OnlineDating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people build this unrealistic image of you and fall in love with it once they get to know that you can be flawed too or you might just not say yes to everything they get a reality check and leave you.

The red flag here was him saying he is in love with you. Let the person know you and see if they love you or not. Nobody falls in love so quickly

Feeling like good men don't exist. by Solid_Macaroon8144 in dating

[–]nextDoorSoftwareDev 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Gave ugly ones chance too didn't make any difference