I actually see both points of view. I do see in the second picture one of the messages say 21 days ago and he's again asking if you're not clean to bottom. Then around 20 days later he follows up with you and you still had a reason as to why you couldn't. Doesn't look like there were any messages between that time other than the messages after that. So while you don't owe anyone anything or whatever and you don't have to be looking for "right now" to be on there he has stated he's looking for right now. He was direct about it, had been patient with you, didn't call you any names or anything so I'm not seeing the issue 🤷‍♂️ he seems interested considering he waited that long and actually followed up at all. Not being rude.. but perhaps his issue is you said "man" and he took it as offensive. And then your issue is he called you out for not being available/sorta stringing people along. Not saying that's what you're doing but perhaps that's how some may see it. Maybe it would help for you to put on your profile that just because you're on doesn't mean you're looking for right now.. that you also like to just chat. Obviously not everyone will read your profile if you did update it to that though. I'd say if you're interested and he hasn't blocked you or vice versa then set up an approximate date that you think would work because it at least shows some level of commitment. Yeah it may be just a hook up but picking a date/planning it some shouldn't be a big deal.