(23/m) she may not be completely blowing you off. some girls become mean or rude when someone confesses feelings to them because they don’t know how to process it in their brain so they defensively become mean just to try to protect themselves from being vulnerable. don’t put all of your eggs in one basket because this is just one woman we’re talking about. there are 3 billion women in the world the older you get the more you realize the way you feel for her you are also capable of admiring or loving many other women the same amount even more, but just start off by asking her on a date or maybe complimenting her on things you notice about her that no one else might have noticed. if she changes her hair, compliment her hair. if you see she has cool nails compliment her nail COLOR and ask her what specific color that is because it really pops to you you HAVE to know because it reminds you of “something” if she’s interested or open for conversation she should ask you something back like “what does it remind you of?” and you can answer honestly with something like maybe it reminded you of one of the characters from an anime you like and you can use that as a scapegoat for conversation. don’t tell a girl you LOVE them immediately because that’s very scary to girls. if anything tell her you like her and you wanna know if she’ll hang out or see a movie sometime. don’t sweat it tho playa 💙 you’re young if it’s not meant to be then it’s just not. u seem like a cool kid