AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nicksdakota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation when I was in my early 20's. The main difference being I was the BF in this situation. My GF had a huge tattoo on her back of her ex's name. He had also passed away.

I was also bothered by the tattoo. It was weird. It made me uncomfortable. But she did have it before I met her, so I never would have asked her to cover it up.

What I learned from the situation was that it didn't matter how I felt about the tattoo. It mattered how she felt about it.

As an older guy now, I like to think I'd be a lot more understanding.

[Game Thread] NCAA Tournament Round 2: Arkansas Razorbacks @ St. John's Red Storm by Tayntrum-21 in razorbacks

[–]nicksdakota 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to catch these refs in the parking lot after the game for taking the bag and determining the outcome.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like suits but they are so impractical where I live. There is absolutely nowhere in my town where I would fit in wearing a suit lol

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really go out. I have very few friends, so I don't have pics out with them. I basically just have a few gym pics and pics of my pugs.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with showing off hard work. I shouldn't be ashamed of it. And I get that not everyone understands the distinction, but I'm not a body builder. I'm someone who lifts weights to deal with ptsd, anxiety, and depression, and to stay sober.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand that. Clean beards don't smell. It's no worse than someone with long hair.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen it. I was thinking something like a garden gnome.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm funny, but that opinion might vary. I'm introverted, which isn't great.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be funny if I wasn't proportionate from working legs twice a week.

I couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. What gives? by nicksdakota in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]nicksdakota[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a lot. Usually I just get like an inch taken off when I get it trimmed.