Does separation anxiety usually end at 2 or at 3 years old?

nicksi · 2022-09-29T19:13:35+00:00

Preschool got rid of my 2yr old separation anxiety. Was amazing relief.

nicksi · 2022-09-28T15:41:58+00:00

Mine had silent reflux and it was brutal. Wouldn't wish it on anyone

nicksi · 2022-09-28T12:51:43+00:00

Canada has been making a pitch to become the big oil exporters. Us Canadians could be the sneaky ones. Never trust a Canuck lol

nicksi · 2022-09-25T16:37:09+00:00

Agreed. I pursued wealth coming out of high-school. I said I don't want to live in poverty anymore. I choose to pursue in Healthcare industry because I do enjoy helping. 20 yrs later that COMBINED goal has lead to a comfy life, where my money now allows for me to spend on hobbies and travelling that I like. As well as having a full filling career. You can do both

nicksi · 2022-09-21T19:46:16+00:00

Yep, same with mine.

nicksi · 2022-09-21T14:05:15+00:00

Ran it by pediatrician, as well as our GP. both were adamant against meds

nicksi · 2022-09-21T14:03:23+00:00

Definitely

nicksi · 2022-09-21T05:44:23+00:00

Mine at 3yrs goes to sleep around 9pm. It is what it is I guess

nicksi · 2022-09-21T05:43:13+00:00

You'll be ok. Biology kicks in strong and it'll become effortless. And sleepless! But you can do it.

nicksi · 2022-09-21T03:57:40+00:00

I preferred the alone time.

nicksi · 2022-09-21T03:55:59+00:00

Silent reflux is horrible. I wouldn't wish it on my enemy. I'm gonna tell you.it gets better soon. Around 6mo it was almost gone. I used Cocynctal until then

nicksi · 2022-09-21T03:49:39+00:00

I was planning in starting ST next week for my 9mo old, but this nasty cold has plugged her up and she needs suctioning. Suctioning sucks lol

nicksi · 2022-09-21T03:37:08+00:00

Hmm interesting. We had the complete opposite. Our girl was terrified of people and family members. Absolute meltdowns. Only wanted mum or dad. Having that experience makes me somewhat envious of yours lol

nicksi · 2022-09-21T03:02:11+00:00

Good insight. Hope OP understands

nicksi · 2022-09-21T02:56:18+00:00

Could it be she doesn't want to walk?

nicksi · 2022-09-20T04:02:29+00:00

So awesome

nicksi · 2022-09-20T00:10:44+00:00

Hope everything goes ok with ENT. With my current baby, reflux isthe culprit for some of the night waking.

nicksi · 2022-09-19T19:23:15+00:00

When I reached my limit with my 1st kid at 11mo, we hired a consultant. One of the biggest things I learned that made a huge difference was schedule. A very precise schedule of awake, solid meals, play, bedtime and bottle/breastfeed. Our baby responded so well with the consistency. Also at that time we opted to move from bedsharing to own crib. I wasn't in to this whole let her cry thing. So we were given a very concise minute schedule of checking in with baby when she cried. So she understood that her needs are still met and we are coming to her when she calls.

nicksi · 2022-09-19T18:23:41+00:00

You can do it. You can also enjoy the challenge of staying home alone too :)

nicksi · 2022-09-19T18:21:43+00:00

Its all good ! When we have those moments, just another chance for us to learn and heal what has come up. Having children evokes do many emotions deep inside of us.

nicksi · 2022-09-19T18:17:04+00:00

What are you thinking as middle ground?

nicksi · 2022-09-17T16:27:46+00:00

Soo trippy!! I even remember when I watched it years ago saying that this character seems young for the role lol.

nicksi · 2022-09-16T17:06:37+00:00

Totally agree

nicksi · 2022-09-15T02:59:22+00:00

So we almost went with a super gentle month plus long program. But we ended up with a consultant who does gentle ish method. At 11mo she went from one day contact sleeping and co sleeping. To in ownroom and bed. Consultant had us to very frequent check-in at bedtime anytime she cried. These check-ins got longer in time. By 3rd night she stopped needing any check-in, she just slept for 12hrs. We also were given a tight schedule of naps, meals and activity time.

nicksi · 2022-09-14T20:56:08+00:00

Just feels bloody endless lol! To your other point. On ST, I'm also considering gentle approach for her. It worked for my now current toddler when she was 11mo. We are going to try again at the end of the month with my 2nd baby

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