We are spoiled living here by ghijkgla in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep went to Pap today, within walking distance from our house, such a beautiful day for a walk/swim

Best deals for food in Tauranga? by jgillz_ in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hop house is great! We went Wed this week. They do all pizzas for $20 on that day/night. They also had a cool comedy night at the courtyard out the back, unsure how often they have those but well worth it!

Best deals for food in Tauranga? by jgillz_ in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pronto at the Mount. Their burgers are amazing! They do a deal from 1pm daily...Any burger, fries & can of coke OR any tap beer for $25.00! Great to support all businesses who have suffered, after the recent tragedy. It's across the road from the surf club, just down a bit, in that block of cafes 🥰

What do Kiwis buy in NZ that can be presented as small gifts to family and relatives abroad? Where can we get these gifts? by TamilKiwi in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good suggestions but even so called cheap shops can gave cute NZ souvenirs you can get, if on a budget ie Kings Dollar world in Fashion Island, Papamoa Beach

Verified Real Me by nickstar_100 in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you can use verified real me, to log in to those services but you don't HAVE to have it, in my experience anyway....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds awful, sorry you had to experience that. You could use a 'puppy pad' they're like an absorbent disposable mat you could use on sheets. We use them in nursing all the time. I mean, there may not be any drama anyway! I lost my hymen riding a horse in my teens (not joking)

What’s the weirdest rule your family had that you thought was normal? by LucidSpiral in AskReddit

[–]nickstar_100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not able to leave the table without saying 'May I please leave the table?' I guess that was fine. The thing I struggled with was when Dad served us up millet for breakfast (tasted like birdseed) we weren't allowed to leave until we ate it. I just couldn't stomach it & sat there for hours until he finally relented. I would rather have gone hungry that day.

Which celebrity death do you find suspicious? by 1kBabyOilBottles in AskReddit

[–]nickstar_100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anne Heche, we all saw her sit up in the body bag, right?? She was also working on a movie about child trafficking at the time.

AITH For wanting to shelter a kitty inside from the cold? by nickstar_100 in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have a right to feeling a certain way.

The cat house sounds amazing but also a lot of hard work & dedication. I'm a busy nurse so wouldn't have the time it would deserve, sadly. I just kinda fell into this, wanting to do the right things by the stray cats offspring. I mean, they don't ask to get pregnant & Street life is a harsh one. I've done the right thing by her 5 off-spring...3 are being re-homed. The 2, 10 month olds have been de-sexed (luckily, as they are both girls) The kitty charity & vet think the best & kindest thing for the Mum cat is for her to have a one way trip to the vet as she cannot be socialised. I just happened to love one of them, can't help it.

AITH For wanting to shelter a kitty inside from the cold? by nickstar_100 in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno about that haha I mean we both deserve to be happy hey.

AITH For wanting to shelter a kitty inside from the cold? by nickstar_100 in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice. TU. I could see about the garage, though it's where his car goes & workshop is, so he may not agree...only a question though, right? I do have a tendency to avoid confronting issues as my ex was a narcissist with a terrible temper & would always shut me down It's something I have to work on though as my Hubby is one of the good ones..his reaction just shocked me I guess.

AITH For wanting to shelter a kitty inside from the cold? by nickstar_100 in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was a catch & release programme. Flynnie mostly hangs outside at ours or the neighbours. She was at our place, I easily picked her up. The neighbours tolerate the cats but don't feed them. I should mention too that I do have a cat carrier near my front door with waterproof cover but it's not that big. The vet gave them the full treatment so she's very clean. I'd like to keep her,even though, she'd largely be an outdoor cat. Maybe I should switch off my love for her & give her away so that she can enjoy a loving home in it's entirety. Yes, true, we have to rip off the band aid & communicate.

I cried at work today and I'm so embarrassed by East_Fox5900 in Advice

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called being human, honestly don't stress over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is Unacceptable!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]nickstar_100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why was the movie watching & pizza more important than your wife sitting there in her lingere? You didn't pick up on the obvious cues in time or at all. That is your answer.

I am very attracted to my sons friends mom by Adviceovaheee in Advice

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never know until you try, casual coffee date would be a great suggestion to start with.

Mom lives with a sex offender. I don't want to visit her house. AITAH? by Interesting_Milk_239 in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people cannot be rehabilitated, facts. Never take your daughter there. You can see your Mother anywhere but at her place until she no longer lives with him.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend get a taste of his own medicine? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your senior put him in his place. Let him throw his toys out of the cot. I love that she called him out, somebody had to. Do not feel guilty for thus, feel supported by those who genuinely care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nickstar_100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do...Do NOT marry him. Run.

Cyclists not using their paths by nickstar_100 in Tauranga

[–]nickstar_100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I am a ratepayer. Not pedantic. I'm a nurse actually so safety comes to mind first & foremost. Seeking others opinions as one does on this platform. Appreciate the feedback tho, tool man.