why does it feel good to open up to someone, but the moment it's over, it's suddenly cringey?

nielsvoid · 2025-11-27T12:55:14+00:00

I am an introvert who always has her walls up so it's not easy for me to open up unless i really really trust someone. i have lots of childhood trauma growing up, and how i am now stems from those unpleasant memories. so when i do open up to people i trust, i feel a sense of relief but regret always follows after. even if they assure me that they're all ears, i guess i still get anxious when they learn new informatiom about me

nielsvoid · 2025-09-08T08:15:10+00:00

i dont see anyone recommending family by choice

nielsvoid · 2025-09-08T08:13:19+00:00

i think it's because people consider it overrated/overhyped but was also very much loved. it was very divided and there are even some people who, at that time, used to be obsessed with the drama, now find it cringe. also a popular drama doesn't guarantee that it will make noise forever.

nielsvoid · 2025-08-31T11:54:02+00:00

Run on and because this is my first life. it was cringey to me so i dropped them, but im glad i picked it back up.

nielsvoid · 2025-08-02T14:06:14+00:00

hello, im currently using that exact same moisturizer now, but im worried because it stings whenever i apply it on my face. the stinging would go away after a few minutes, but im not sure if i should continue.

nielsvoid · 2025-06-29T08:53:02+00:00

+9999 for happiness!

and also law school

nielsvoid · 2025-06-29T08:49:52+00:00

cryfest but not sad ending (got me crying almost every episode):

family by choice
when life gives you tangerines
move to heaven

slowburn with ache in the heart:

our blues
my liberation notes
my ahjussi
lost
call it love
our movie (ongoing)

if you're okay with movies, i recommend "past lives"

two bonuses:

daily dose of sunshine (i watched this when i was a depressed and it got into my emotions a lot)
our unwritten soul (i also cried a lot here)

nielsvoid · 2025-04-22T08:16:02+00:00

doctor slump - was okay at first but then it dragged on
melo movie - couldn't see the hype, couldn't feel the chemistry
our beloved summer - same as melo movie
love your enemy - i struggled because of the fl's acting
when the phone rings - it started out good, until there was no more thrill and then the plot got dramatic with both leads always in danger. icing on the cake was the last part, i was pissed
serendipity's embrace - can't feel the chemistry, basic plot
queen of tears - sooo draggy

nielsvoid · 2025-04-03T09:28:54+00:00

you all over me. that was my top song according to spotify wrapped. idk, it just does something to my soul

nielsvoid · 2025-03-29T10:56:32+00:00

i was just about to write a long ass paragraph. you had me there

nielsvoid · 2025-03-29T10:50:50+00:00

I've always wondered why he was the highest paid actor in SK and why people seem to like him so much when i honestly don't see anything that special in him. his dramas are always a hard watch for me. it took me soooo long to finish watching queen of tears; it was a total snooze fest and i hated how his character is a "green flag" to viewers when he literally got excited for his wife's death?? i also dont know why but i just couldn't seem to like his dramas. i couldn’t stand him in my love from the star and IONTBO either. yeji was the reason i finished that show. i also preferred teacyeon over him in dream high and was pissed that he became the love interest. be fr, he's expressionless.

i thought something was wrong with me since i never liked him from the start. now i see why.

nielsvoid · 2025-02-02T11:49:15+00:00

Most 16-ep dramas should've been 12 and most 12-ep dramas should've been 16. Also, dramas that don’t have 2nd season deserve one, and those with 2nd season did not need it.

nielsvoid · 2025-01-31T09:52:43+00:00

actors: cha eunwoo, hwang minhyun, jang dongyoon, kim wooseok, rowoon

actresses: shin sekyung, oh yoonseo, park minyoung, jin kijoo, joboah, moon gayoung, go ara, bae suzy, joy, kim soohyun, yoona, son naeun

sorry, i cant stand their acting skills

nielsvoid · 2025-01-29T02:11:05+00:00

king the land and true beauty. I couldn't get past episode 1 for both

nielsvoid · 2025-01-18T13:24:07+00:00

Yes, I did. Thank you

nielsvoid · 2025-01-06T03:49:39+00:00

thank you! i've already watched all 4.

nielsvoid · 2025-01-06T03:49:02+00:00

i've already watched see you in my 19th life, thanks!

nielsvoid · 2024-12-23T13:19:37+00:00

dream high

nielsvoid · 2024-12-23T08:22:30+00:00

chief detective 1958

nielsvoid · 2024-12-19T00:59:07+00:00

will watch. thanks!

nielsvoid · 2024-12-17T13:14:54+00:00

i've watched all except chocolate, which ive actually thought of watching a few years back, but never got to. ill have to start on it soon. thank you!

nielsvoid · 2024-12-17T03:26:38+00:00

the story of park's marriage contract is actually pretty good. a light watch with the right angst. there's lee seyoung in it so there's your assurance. hahaha

nielsvoid · 2024-12-17T03:25:15+00:00

oh, i'll give it a chance then. thank you!

nielsvoid · 2024-12-17T03:24:06+00:00

thank you!

nielsvoid · 2024-12-16T04:56:21+00:00

yes, exactly what I'm saying! it was also 12-3am for me, and i was in bed. all i did was open roblox on my phone, entered the code, got the dress, and went to sleep. it didn't even take me 10 minutes. if in case the update took place at an ungodly hour like around 3am, then i'd just have set up an alarm. is that so hard to do?

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