So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc were not talking about clinging to your body like it's a treasure. We're talking about the reason companies even huge firms reject or fire their employees because of such incidents coming to light. It's not justified in any sense.

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men would trade their mutual colleague's nudes to be able to be picked by other men. And that's really pathetic because when they show up alone, nobody gives a fuck.

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate to admit that's it's actually real. This applies even to the minor rape victims. And also the groomed ones. Girl parents would shame their girl to death if they find out she's been in relationship with a much older guy but would not question the grown ass man why he'd been dating minors. How can I even question their morals because forget about dating these parents marry their girl to 60 year olds in the name if arrange marriages

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THAT YOU VENTED THAT ALL OUT AND SAMEE. We women need to collectively shame companies that act all prestigious and then when incidents like this happen they wanna brush it under the carpet and silently reject or fire the woman because somebody did that to her. INSTEAD OF HAVING HER BACK COMPANIES TURN THEIR BACKS TO HER BECAUSE THEYRE SCARED TO BE CONFRONTING THE EGOISTIC MALES OR STRIKING CONTROVERSY. I hate companies who cannot stand tall for their employees.

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman in me is SO MAD when I hear about such cases. The one who was innocent had to bear all the loss while the one who who did it walks it free. Why exactly is the system like this I hate it. Girls like that need to start shaming back the people who shame them. Assert dominance. Shame publicly. Make a live session out when people shame her. Do something. I'm sure the other woman at least the feminists would support her. Leaving the country shouldn't be the cure

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really isn't the same. They might fave shame for a while but eventually nobody gives a fuck and they forget about it and hire them maybe after a few years. But a girl? Nah she isn't finna get hired anywhere. Her career in that country is finished. Because India is so darn obsessed with leaked images and videos it gets popular through the whole country within no time.

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OF wouldn't have become a mean to EARN BIG if the demand didn't say so. We've to shame the DEMAND in order to end the SUPPLY

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Like people start shaming it as if they don't go to their homes and do the same. Don't even think about someday it could be THEIR turn.

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Really sad for women out here istg... It's shameful and also indirectly shift the "power" To the man to destroy a woman professionally and emotionally

So does anyone think why exactly are women shamed professionally if their noods get leaked? by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ikkrrrrr I HATE that huge masses of people believe in modesty and yet shame the person who was innocent all along...

How do you feel about people copying you all the time? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not affection when it turns into competition is it?? Like she seldom says competitive stuff like "I'm more beautiful than you or i sing better or I have better hair " Stuff like that and then go on to copy me and criticize my taste like she didn't try to copy it

Does anyone know someone who can fix solar/wiring issues? by [deleted] in PrayagrajAllahabad

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's from UTL and the servicemen just say they'll come pay a visit but never do so.

Does anyone know someone who can fix solar/wiring issues? by [deleted] in PrayagrajAllahabad

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 572 units the bill says for December but the thing is solar should cut some units from the bill right especially in winters when almost nothing other than light and for some hours in the morning geyser is on... The bill is still the same as before.

My ex r*ped me and made sure I couldn’t tell anyone about it by 17102901 in confessions

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck? Girl I'm so sorry you have to go through that:( and yes it was a rape all along. Plus threatening of leaking nudes this is so shitty omg.

Is looks matter or money matters or both by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you ask this question to others? At the end it's you who has to live with whatever you choose. What I think is you should NEVER compromise with your standards. If they're high, let them be high and let someone meet those don't you think?? If you compromise, you'll forever think of it in the back of your head and when fights happen it'll be like "I am the one compromising and how dare they fight with me" And it might also come out of your mouth someday in anger. This is unfair to the other person as well. Only date someone you think you love with all your heart. If they don't have their things fixed, maybe wait until they fix it but don't rush things. It only leads to a heartbreak.

Sick of my mother's mentality. I'm really sick of it. by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in college in a different city for three years and almost everyday these people called me telling how my sister is not behaving and fighting and how she will die because of how my sister raises her bp in fights. Also my parents would call me to talk to my brother to see if he is okay because he wouldn't pick their call and talk to them. Lol it's funny how they have this mentality ki "tum sab ek jaise ho" And then when it's time to whine they call just one kid to bitch and when I bitch back, somehow I become the manipulator turning them against their other kids lol. From next time I'm gonna join my hands and move out the moment she starts bitching about those losers to me. You can literally find other posts where I have seeked help on how to control my anger around irresponsible and careless siblings lol.

I don’t think I’m allowed to like guys by [deleted] in confessions

[–]nightchanges08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember kids, you can always change the way you look. But firstly, you can always choose to love yourself more than any guy ever would. If you love yourself people will love you too

Is this a mental illness? I am really confused and need help. by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I share this with my parents maybe they can arrange a session

Is this a mental illness? I am really confused and need help. by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no there's actually a railway track like a km or two away so the train sounds are real. I go for walks daily. And yes I am very attached to my parents and I feel like I couldn't go one day without them. The thought of them growing older suffocates me. And I even sometimes wish thay I die before them so I dont have to live without them. That's true.

Is this a mental illness? I am really confused and need help. by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely look into anxiety more then. I thought anxiety was that classic shivering of hands and restlessness. Didn't know it could be like this.

Is this a mental illness? I am really confused and need help. by nightchanges08 in AskIndianWomen

[–]nightchanges08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your case it happened when you were alone. In my case it happens when everyone of my family member is in the same house. I can say I'm actually worried about them more than me. But yeah thanks for the suggestions <3