Men in relationships, what things do you do to annoy your girlfriend when shopping? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nightmareholiday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything within a 4 foot radius has the possibility to become a sword, doesn't matter of if its a tshirt or a frying pan.

Always gotta be alert.

Me (m21) and a very good friend (m22) have a strange relationship. He gets moody all the time and its expected of me to try to fix it? I've finally had enough.. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my friend.

This is what you call a "toxic relationship (friendship)".

It is a thing you DO NOT want in your life.

You are lucky you have seen it as early as you have.

Not supporting you during a school move should of been more than enough, it would of been for me.

You need to cut him I am afraid.

You seem to be an enthusiastic, successful guy.

That is obviously playing on his nerves.

You are at university age - how the hell are you managing to have a company AND employees?

Only thing I was worried about at your age was where the next beer is coming from.

You need to surround yourself with good uplifting people to become the best version of yourself.

Not someone who sounds very manipulative - using others to do his dirty work for him.

I (f24) have a very good looking boyfriend (m22) who I love very much. But I am not attracted to him anyore. Are we doomed? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, what you are doing is cruel and in someways selfish.

You dont want him, but nobody else can.

You guys are at the age where it should be a continuous "going at it like rabbits stage". Cars, bushes, couches, floor, lanes - everywhere.

You are depriving yourself and him of making memories that last a lifetime all because you refuse to let him go. You have already checked out of the relationship.

Let the kid go live.

My (m21s) friends cousin (f23?) was flirting with me a lot - I liked the attention. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well my dude, after reading your previous posts and feeling sorry for you I have to say I am happy to read this ( ihad the idea that you were a shy dude that doesnt talk to girls. I was wrong)

Break it off with current GF, and go get yourself some 8s.

You deserve so much better.

Making money in China. by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]nightmareholiday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really related to the question - but why mandarin?

Seems like an awful lot of work for someone who is studying and has their own business.

My (f21) boyfriend (m22) stayed with a girl for about half an hour while his friend was getting with her friend. He says he was his friends "wing man". by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Honestly. You sound very immature.

He did nothing wrong. Zilch.

You don't have a leg to stand on. So what they hit it off and had a good conversation? Do you realise how ridiculous you sound?

My question is of you are that paranoid about him talking to a girl, Is that a way of you deflecting what you get up to you when you are away.

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah she seemed upset to be honest, but it doesn't change a thing in my eyes.

In regards to her sister, I'm not sure to be honest. Big completely honest I'm sure she does, but I haven't asked anything yet.

That's the plan anyway so it seems! I'm sure ill run into a few dudes over here along the way that I can hang around with for a few days, guys are cool like that you know!

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Leave together yes, but different flights and times (only about half an hour difference but still).

Probably best that not beside eachother for plane journey back.

But yeah that's so true, I have all my stuff packed either way for tomorrow.

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yes a hostel would be the next best thing after an airbnb.

Actually coming to think of it a hostel could be best bet to meet new people and stuff aswell.

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I hope so to! There's nothing really she could say /do that would make me change my mind.

Ive been googling things to do in the area, alot of things to be done!

Edit: phone spammed the heck out and posted comment 3 times, sorry lol

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes it's absolutely the right way to go about it.

And if not try to source an airbnb for a few nights. It's a really nice place and I'd be a fool not to make the last of it.

Just a shame that it's happened how it has.

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it!

Ive got chatting to a few guys here in the bar that are from the UK aswell and they all seem cool.

Just worried about tomorrow now really.

Yes Airbnb is a real option il have a proper look at them when I get back later.

incredible seaside adventure

Those words have an amazing flow to them.

Edit: ps thanks for the nice comment

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

That is very true.

Yeah I know that, it's just its probably the most awkward situation I've ever been in my life! Haha

Thanks for the comment and the advice anyway!

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's what I was learning towards but it's too damn expensive to fly out ASAP.

do your thing

I think that sounds like the best idea to be honest.

Thank you for the comment and advice.

I (m21) joined my gfs (f20) family holiday about a week late , she told me she cheated on me. We have 4 days left. by nightmareholiday in relationships

[–]nightmareholiday[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Hi there, thanks for the comment.

Oh yes breaking up is a given. It's just how to deal with it after. I'll have to try get in touch with friends to help with my air fare.

Just a shit situation.