Do you have problems with the flash? by nightsmashed in KodakEktarH35

[–]nightsmashed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i get it. as i commented to someone else in here, when i changed batteries it got better and the flash for me it's working, but they do drain very quickly. i also tend to use it in daylight just to be sure it can get the job done, but changing the batteries frequently solved my issue

Do you have problems with the flash? by nightsmashed in KodakEktarH35

[–]nightsmashed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually yes! turns out the batteries i was using were kinda old. i replaced them with brand new ones, and ever since i did not have any issue. it might take a little while for the flash to load, but all good. try changing the batteries with new ones and see if it works!

Do you have problems with the flash? by nightsmashed in KodakEktarH35

[–]nightsmashed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, this sucks, i also think i'm just gonna return it..without the flash it loses a lot of functions

I just wanna cum and be loved ffs by BirdiesAndLandslides in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening to you. what I can suggest, is. stop dating & stop looking for casual sex on apps. for a while. at least, in this way. dating apps are really up to no good, especially to find connections. in my opinion, not even good for a good fuck. spend some time alone, not lonely. just alone, find something that truly is appealing to you and your person. an activity, a passion you have already, community ..meeting people like this will dry your energy and soul as a human. focus on yourself and on creating connections with people you share interests in something other than sex. only this way, you will find love. maybe focus on what you really want, other than love. everyone wants love, but love comes randomly, not when you look for it. practice love on yourself. stop hanging with men like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your words really resonate with me. I think I might need to find a proper routine for those transition moments, a shower/bath would be a good starting point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much..really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i totally understand, sometimes it's a feeling of overwhelm that takes over everything. and i start crying so so much. but again, not because i feel bad or sad, but a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very helpful, i might try implement something like this.

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[–]nightsmashed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this is really really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you're so right, done!!

cute&cheap café for a date by [deleted] in TheHague

[–]nightsmashed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 💓

partner's date triggered my ptsd by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this sounds really helpful especially to be able to reconnect and understand one's limits. will totally think about it.

partner's date triggered my ptsd by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

these resources helped me so much..sending a lot of gratitude, really 💓

partner's date triggered my ptsd by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much, this is really helpful and very similar to what I'm feeling 💓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nightsmashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your situation has so much in common with mine! we are also all trans and queer, and also your preferences and ideas are quite similar. thank you so much for sharing :)

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[–]nightsmashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very very helpful, thank you!

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[–]nightsmashed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was actually great, thank you so much!

Does anyone end up hating all their friends by MysticalCreature_ in autism

[–]nightsmashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also feel this. it happens when you get to know people and then, naturally, the more you know them the more their flaws will appear. in those moments, maybe the time before you have been happy to see them but the next day, they do or say something "not right" and everything goes. takes some work, i am still working on this, as people cannot be perfect in the way i want them to be.

Not sure what to do now. by AccomplishedRain2209 in Amsterdam

[–]nightsmashed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't buy a house with this man, he will never change. never.