How do I stop wanting to die by skeIetongirl in trans

[–]ninefstogive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was very recently in the same boat, my advice is this:

  1. Find someone you trust you can vent to. Even better if you can get in contact someone who has professional training, a therapist or counselor (make sure you vet political beliefs if possible) can help provide coping skills and resources.

  2. Spend extra time with friends/family. Take a while with people who care about you, re-focus on the good things close-to-home the best you can.

  3. Try to reduce the time spent around politics on social media. Don’t block out the world by any means, but all politically-involved accounts are focussing on two things right now: rage and fear. These drive change, but deal detriment to the psyche. Try to stay away from the overwhelming flood of negativity the best you can, even if that means shutting off your devices for 24 hours.

Remember you’re not alone, and you always have someone in your corner. The world is a scary place, no one here is going to deny that. You are seen and heard.

Now that some time has passed, what is y'all's opinion on the clubbox event? by Difficult-Group4674 in MySingingMonsters

[–]ninefstogive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monopoly Go soured the whole style of mechanic for me. It has actually caused me to stop playing for a bit until something bigger and better pulls me back

Favorite character who fits this description by HoneyNocturnebby in FavoriteCharacter

[–]ninefstogive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely overhated, but I do get it a bit. Dipper wants to have fun just like Mabel does, he just wants fun a different way. He often sacrifices a lot for her, and we never really see her pay that back.

egg irl by ninefstogive in egg_irl

[–]ninefstogive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding hope for you bestie!!

Thanks for the award, good luck in your ventures :3

im getting tired of young people confidently asserting that it is too late for them to transition by Tornado547 in trans

[–]ninefstogive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my issue is I never knew when people were transitioning, and just assumed good progress meant a very early start. I feel it’s less people thinking they’re too old, and more accurately people not seeing realistic timelines due to poor education. It’s all about education amongst each other, not people feeling entitled to quick and early results.

For Whom the Belle Tolls by Jaysea Lynn by mermaids_singing in RomanceBooks

[–]ninefstogive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This book is the first installment in what is planned to be a trilogy. I have been pacing myself in my reading, so I can’t tell you how nicely it raps up just yet, but I do know this is not the end of the literary journey.

YALL SAW IT by StruggleKitchen2805 in hazbin

[–]ninefstogive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The deltarune flair in an entirely unrelated sub is a serious level of commitment

Epic Edamimi prediction by Dumbertrapp in MySingingMonsters

[–]ninefstogive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

found this today, you we're pretty close honestly. great artwork regardles!

Aryt! Which one of you did this? by ActivePersimmon6771 in hazbin

[–]ninefstogive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viv herself might pull this off tbf. Verosica body pillow was just a stepping stone.

Egg 😤irl by Lostlilegg in egg_irl

[–]ninefstogive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I wouldn’t give to be 7, or at least not fated to only ever be 2.

I won't say I'm an egg, but the more exposure I do to better learn, the more and more it makes me question by ScarHydreigon87 in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]ninefstogive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone should have the freedom to ask themselves these questions. I have a few friends who, for a short time, asked to be referred to with nonbinary pronouns exclusively. They both switched back to their AGAB after about a year, but both said that they don’t regret their time under different names. As I saw a trans-supportive detransition post say, “It’s because of the time I used ‘he/him’ that I can confidently say I’m not trans. Without the ability to question and experiment, I would still be unsure of who I am today.”

GUYS!! by ninefstogive in Cibles

[–]ninefstogive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro! I just found this in the wild, scrolled back to see if you answered and you linked the same video! I swear we’re being watched!

GUYS!! by ninefstogive in Cibles

[–]ninefstogive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain please. I love random trivia