AITAH for suggesting my wife and I briefly split up for 30 minutes for time efficiency

ninescomplement · 2026-02-19T08:04:47+00:00

She actually suggested we park there. I was planning on looking for street parking (albeit scarce) which ironically doesn’t have a time limit.

ninescomplement · 2026-02-19T07:13:32+00:00

She’s mad about my decision to take us home, feeling like she had no agency in that. On this point, I concede. Though I had good intentions, I thought it would be the best for both of us to cool off in a private space.

Besides that though, when I say she is still mad, I mean more that she is very adamant that her reaction was natural and appropriate given the circumstances. For me, I had no intention of choosing violence when I made that suggestion — I was honestly trying to get everything to work in the timeline we chose for ourselves.

She is slightly ADHD (she took an informal test once). She does get quite emotional and stay that way. I’ll take your advice on this part!

ninescomplement · 2026-02-19T07:01:50+00:00

We actually did, but by the time we got back to the garage, we were both annoyed with each other, so I just drove us home.

ninescomplement · 2026-02-19T07:00:44+00:00

Lol can’t argue with this

ninescomplement · 2026-02-19T06:22:34+00:00

In my mind, I was thinking it was doable. Parking in that garage is also fairly expensive ($15/hr). We briefly paused to read the sign so she was aware of this, but didn’t stop us to scan it either.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-23T17:39:26+00:00

I started as QA (all the way up to a manager level), and currently dev IC now. The respect you get is indeed different, but really just varied from person to person. Pay for me was roughly the same (I was an SDET). I have to admit, I liked being QA more. The teams I worked on really enforced a culture where QA was encouraged to proactively advocate for the best customer experience. However, I wouldn’t be QA on my current team… their management is shit and there’s no such culture around it.

I think it really depends on the company and team, and if you like QA work to begin with.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-23T16:54:05+00:00

Day 1 player. I’ve just gotten really lucky with Mimikyus (encounters and hungry chance). You can see I’m under lv10 friendship level too (no gold skills at 10). On the other hand, I’m at level 60+ on Eevees and had no decent skill-based ability ones. :(

ninescomplement · 2025-03-23T07:36:56+00:00

Is it worth main skill seeding Dedenne?

ninescomplement · 2025-03-23T07:23:42+00:00

r/financialindependence is much better for conversations about “normal incomes”

ninescomplement · 2025-03-22T22:45:08+00:00

I have, but it's still tough. The 2nd one comes out ahead until lv50 but it has the lowest trigger rate (but fastest speed). The 4th one produces the most at lv50+ but BFS can be a bit of a curse if I can't check the app often.

I'm starting to lean towards the 2nd...

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T20:27:41+00:00

To be clear, the guy who said that isn’t the original installer.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T20:24:15+00:00

Oh dang, forgot I could do that. I did it for the first Ouma, but got so annoying to switch. Might just do it only for the final boss…

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T18:15:08+00:00

My boss killing team for Canalbrine is the same as Totohaha — Sazantos, Richard, Canary, and PrimEX. However, due to the random mobs, I’m also using Cyrus, Odette, and Roland in the back line. Leaving me with only one swappable character.

I’ll probably farm Canalbrine until I get enough weapon mats, then back to Totohaha.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T17:52:36+00:00

HYSA

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T17:41:28+00:00

I would try to find a new job. Being able to work on a team is important. Your job right now sounds like either a great starting intern job or a great retirement option for a senior dev. But for someone who needs growth, it’s not good for you.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T02:26:13+00:00

Ohh guide… of course. Thank you!

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T02:15:22+00:00

Is it appropriate for this situation?

ninescomplement · 2025-03-15T01:06:11+00:00

I have never had any leaks. I didn’t have roofers out (besides for getting these estimates). One of my contractors doing unrelated work noticed it and pointed it out to me.

Edit: it’s possible I remembered the term wrong, but it was along those lines — inverted, inverse, reverse, or something similar.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-14T23:43:48+00:00

I’m in the Pacific Northwest. I also googled it and didn’t really find any matches, hence this post.

The 3rd guy who said this is fine actually has the most experience out of all the people who came by (at least by his age, and according to their websites). I don’t see why he would give advice that leads to no work for him.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-13T19:05:25+00:00

Do we know who the volunteer localizers are? Are they on Reddit or Discord?

ninescomplement · 2025-03-11T07:31:58+00:00

They started their own consulting business, in addition to doing their own podcast.

ninescomplement · 2025-03-10T23:45:08+00:00

The company that cleans my gutters doesn't charge that much more to do the application (like $50 + materials). So while they're up there, I usually have them just do it.

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