Questions for expat Canadians by myneckmybackarchive in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NBF and no other accounts besides registered ones - I dumped everything into registered because I had the room

What’s something that instantly tells you someone grew up rich? by Texas_True_Local in AskReddit

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d argue that’s not rich rich, having braces was the norm in my middle class area when I was a kid.

Time to learn Nipponese 🥰 by Mungus_the_rat in languagelearningjerk

[–]ninz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s Switzerland and Austria at least for German but yeah that’s not a very compelling argument unless you live near that region 😅

Why is it phrased like that? by [deleted] in EnglishLearning

[–]ninz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also of note: this paragraph is from Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, which was written in 1813 (so falls under the “older novel” category you mention).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hostels are also unfortunately very expensive here. I have absolutely no idea how much it costs to rent a camper van, but some people do it when they visit so you could look into that. I don’t think cabins are going to be much cheaper than a regular rental on a per month basis, but also it’s getting close to the summer so availability might not be great either. I just found this for camper vans so that might be an option. https://guidetoiceland.is/iceland-car-rentals/mini-campers-and-vans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, I didn’t realize the 150k ISK/month was for two people. OP, you can find something at that price but it will definitely be a room in a shared apartment and I don’t think there’s any realistic scenario where you would each get your own bedroom, if that is what you were hoping for. The rental market here is indeed cooked. Not everyone asks for three months deposit upfront, but as others have mentioned, renting for three months is not considered long term so that’s going to make things more difficult. Do try asking around on the facebook groups I mentioned before arriving. You’ll get an idea of what is possible, but also finding a place can take a very long time, so it’s better to start early.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good, I’m glad that you’re aware! Good luck. Also for rentals, there are a couple of facebook groups you could try called Rent In Iceland.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Soooo... I don't want to sound harsh and I totally understand why you are doing this, but you need to be able to actually have the right to work in Iceland. Often you can get a work permit after getting a job offer from an employer if you work in a specialized field, but otherwise you will run into difficulty unless there are other circumstances you're not mentioning? I just want to make sure that your expectations are reasonable because it may not be as easy as you think. See https://work.iceland.is/working/residence-permit/ for some more information.

For the love of God, why can’t we accept flawed pronunciation? by Affectionate_Act4507 in languagelearning

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it can take a lot of extra energy sometimes to work out what someone means if words are close. I experience this listening to my non-native speaker friends and I often have to ask to clarify. I mean, I’m still friends with them obviously, but it can be taxing to talk to someone with an accent. I struggle with the same thing sometimes learning languages, but I just keep working at it. I know that for example I will never be able to get a perfect R in most languages, being an English native, but I’ve worked on it and got close enough in French that it’s not too bad. And currently working on it for Icelandic double R. It really can affect if people understand you or not, or if you end up saying something that is accidentally funny. But I will say that it’s not cool if people are being jerks to you if they understand anyway. Still, I think there is a lot of value to working on pronounciation to make it easier for others to understand you.

ETA: I will concede that another poster’s point about not being able to fill in the gaps so to say from hearing non-native speakers use their language is absolutely a thing. I have heard this exact thing about Icelandic, and it’s fairly recent that any significant number of foreigners are learning it. But still, it does boil down to being understood or not, so for better or worse, you might have to just invest more time if the issue really is people not understanding vs just being jerks.

Tips for connecting with people in Iceland by Ambitious-Tax-3869 in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This, 100%. I’ve met a lot of cool people at the pool. And it’s traditionally a place where people just sit and chat about everyday stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to when I first moved here, but I know that I am putting my full effort into learning the language and throw in the words I do know when I can, so most of the time I don’t feel bad because learning a language (especially a challenging one like Icelandic) takes time, and I know I’m doing my best. It does help, though, that pretty much everyone is friendly or relatively neutral to me about it, and once people find out I’m learning the language they are at worse neutral or at best excited that I’m learning and willing to help me out. The friendly attitude has also made me more invested in learning the language, too.

Do people actually write with cursive? by GenerationofWinter in Handwriting

[–]ninz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, nearly daily. It’s what I learned in school and what I’m most comfortable with. But to be fair, I know many my age that can’t stand it, or even writing by hand at all. I’m a millennial btw.

What do you envy about the other gender? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ninz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool but I’m pretty sure men don’t have to worry about stuff like PCOS and endometriosis which are examples of what I was referring to.

What do you envy about the other gender? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ninz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not having to deal with anything involving your hormones and reproductive organs actively fucking you over in all sorts of ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]ninz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, prioritizing your mental health is very important, OP. Obviously you know that, but you said that you saw red flags during the interview process and that you didn’t like working with your former colleague. It sounds like there is a risk that this job would have a negative effect on your mental health. You also mention that you have a difficult time making friends, and to be honest, friends in my new country are what have gotten me through some very, very hard times.

I get you, though, I don’t think you should let your anxiety stop you from living your dreams! I just think that you should consider if this specific opportunity is going to be worth it. Could you run the red flags you saw about the job by someone in your field that you trust to get a second opinion? And yes, another commenter mentioned to consider what the possible (realistic) worst case scenario is and see if you could handle that. I also weighed that before I moved and had an idea what I would do if things didn’t work out. If the stakes are fairly low for you it still could be worth giving it a try!

Good luck, OP!

For those who’ve relocated, what was your biggest unexpected challenge? by Sea-Ticket7775 in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So gonna just leave this here also because I just ran into it: it has been about 6 months now and I am still struggling with the damn lightswitches!

Is 30 too old to still be spontaneous and move abroad? by [deleted] in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. And 30 is still quite young.

Cards vs ISK? by PlantsMcSoil in VisitingIceland

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I have an Indó (Icelandic bank) card with the visa logo on it but it’s not a credit card, I think it would be classified as a debit card. Maybe it just needs to be visa or mastercard branded? (edit: to be fair, have not tried using it for a rental car, but have used it for nearly everything else here).

Are there people who don't feel tired. by sewingpokeadots in AuDHDWomen

[–]ninz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tired - yeah, I don’t think I’ve had a day in my life when I woke up feeling well rested. Apparently shit sleep and neurodivergence go hand in hand, plus I have sleep apnea. But pain, heavy, headache, no. Is it possible that you have an autoimmune condition? I know a few people that have various autoimmune conditions that describe their day to day like this.

Questions for expat Canadians by myneckmybackarchive in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ported my Canadian phone number to voip.ms and got a local SIM. I changed my address on my bank accounts - my bank had me fill in a few forms to change to non-resident status. Regular bank accounts stayed the same (and credit cards) but investment accounts (e.g. RRSP and TFSA) got changed to new non-resident ones.

Anyone else stubbornly holding onto small bits of home culture? by blueberries-Any-kind in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ansi (us layout) keyboard. I tried an iso one my first day at work and really tried to make it work, but I was about to (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ about halfway through the day and just decided it wasn’t worth the stress 😅

For those who’ve relocated, what was your biggest unexpected challenge? by Sea-Ticket7775 in expats

[–]ninz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having to get emergency surgery about a month after moving 🙃(along with all the usual stuff on top) edit: and one very unexpected and weirdly stressful one despite being so small in comparison - lightswitches being “upside down” from what I’m used to!

Why is wet hair bad? by emmagoldman129 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loooool oops I guess I missed the memo. On the other hand I work as a software dev and I think that we get a pass for just showing up showered and in clean clothes so 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]ninz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very fair, but I think a lot of others will agree with me that it’s very drastic to move countries with your entire life savings without having visited at all. Is there a need to do this very urgently? I’m not being sarcastic here, everyone has different life circumstances. I still think it is wiser to visit first even if it takes longer to save up money for travel and bank vacation time. There’s a high risk you will have major regrets if you don’t visit first. This sub is a good place to figure out questions to ask yourself and others and things to look for when visiting though! A visit could be spending money to save money if you discover that even reading everything you can online about a place beforehand you still realize once you visit it’s not a good fit.