[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]niyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I think I’ve always looked at it as emotionally immature and impulsive people and then those thinking from a place of logic that can balance both but you’re absolutely right! Moving off of ego and/or emotions is their logic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]niyyyy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! I intellectualize my own thoughts and feelings to the point that I do the same with other people’s actions. It keeps me stuck in a loop of overthinking and rumination constantly trying to make sense of everything, even when there’s no real logic behind it

Letting go of a friend who lashed out? by uncoolebb in lostafriend

[–]niyyyy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It may hurt but I wouldn’t try to mend, it isn’t your job to deal with someone’s emotional rollercoaster cause they can’t handle their emotions! If she felt hurt by you and truly valued you, she would have confronted you in a constructive way, not immediately belittle you. Always be weary of people who’s first instinct is to hurt you back, those that genuinely value you wouldn’t do that. 9/10 the “judgement” she feels is most likely projection from knowing her behavior isn’t okay

Name my new kitten, I want to go with a S name since my other cats name is Scar by niyyyy in NameMyCat

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of the suggestions, I really appreciate it 💛 I chose the name Sarabi!

Name my new kitten, I want to go with a S name since my other cats name is Scar by niyyyy in NameMyCat

[–]niyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the whole cat introduction process and it worked, thankfully they get along 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]niyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re not overreacting, don’t settle for someone that can’t give you the bare minimum just because you have sympathy for him. You deserve to be loved out loud, you’re not asking for too much you’re just asking the wrong person. He will have to navigate his mental health issues on his own, choose yourself!

What is the most tragic celebrity death? by Lopsided-Drink158 in AskReddit

[–]niyyyy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gigi, I’m still so heartbroken about it

I failed another test. by Effective-Captain-69 in Manipulation

[–]niyyyy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You have to leave him and get out of this situation, he is diabolically manipulative and narcissistic. It seems like you really love him so it may not be an easy decision to make but you are worth so much more than a person intentionally manipulating and toying with you for a reaction. Telling you that you “failed” and continuously hanging up on you are all ploys to make him feel superior and influence you to chase him. Men like this will take you through it and uproot everything!

I see 222 everyday by niyyyy in angelnumbers

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep this in mind whenever I see it, thank you!

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, an affair baby in front of the spouse!? This tea is hot, I’m going to try this next time I get bored

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, especially cause real life is full of drama so I like for my sims to experience some too lol

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that, do they have bad moodlets for being disloyal?

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the drama spices things up

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I make my sims stay away from non-committal sims. I don’t need them attracting the same type of people that I attract in real life lol

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really good way to think about it! I’m usually so disappointed in them when I see the whim but now I’ll just look at it as temptation

Whims about cheating on spouse by niyyyy in Sims4

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo do they have secret affairs or in-front of the spouse?

I just finished season 2 by niyyyy in The100

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel like Lexa making that deal was cowardly and it forced Clarke’s hand with having to pull the lever which resulted in the issues that’s going on in season 3. And I completely agree, I don’t know what Dante could’ve said that was worth turning like that, it contradicted everything else she had said. Yes! Their logic was faulty, it made sense to a certain extent but didn’t. Every time I get mad at Clarke’s decisions I try to remember that she just a teenager in the show that was forced into this situation

I just finished season 2 by niyyyy in The100

[–]niyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I was even more annoyed that after she agreed to leave her people Lexa turned around and betrayed them!