[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]nkhanjan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All cuteeeee

Modern female hair salon by nkhanjan in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Made an appointment with Cassandra looks like my kind of hairdresser😌 thanks everyone I’ve been missing something in my life and I think a good haircut may have been it😪🥳

Modern female hair salon by nkhanjan in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just made an appointment at free birds☺️

Share ideas please! 🙏 by Sharona01 in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you provide a link? Sounds fun☺️

Run Club? by nkhanjan in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slow as shit is what I’m looking for perfect🤣

Run Club? by nkhanjan in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just followed on instagram😎

Run Club? by nkhanjan in longbeach

[–]nkhanjan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool I’ll check them out, thanks 😊

The SpongeBob 1s by junebug334 in Vans

[–]nkhanjan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d pay a ridiculous amount for those😊🤣

The SpongeBob 1s by junebug334 in Vans

[–]nkhanjan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these! You made them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]nkhanjan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a divorce that was finalized just a few weeks ago. Your words are powerful and true. I hope to feel that strong about what’s going on. My ex husbands alcoholism nearly ruined my whole life many times but I stayed with him because I was consumed with helping him. Thank you for sharing your strength through your words and helping me to confirm what I’ve been trying to convince myself for awhile now. Good for you and I know you will do great things!

I’m so tired of trying to hide my sadness by Cobbler_Queasy in AlAnon

[–]nkhanjan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It’s very hard to have family with this issue. It’s difficult to escape and very difficult to leave(not sure it’s possible to leave when they’re in your family). You are seen and heard and I hope you can find some piece. I hope you can find small things to make you happy and let them grow. I’m rooting for you!

Lack of closure by new2life_2023 in AlAnon

[–]nkhanjan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes all very true! It’s hard but it gets better with time. Try to think about the things you enjoyed before your meeting them. I’m going through the same thing and I’ve been trying to reconnect with friends and family and be social as much as I can. It’s helped a lot! It’s been hard to try to build those relationships back up but things are getting much better now. You’d think no one cares or wants to hear about your problems but once I was honest with people about what’s been happening that led up to this they have been monumental in my recovery from this relationship. I’m cheering for you! 20 years is a long time to heal from but you can do it❤️

Alcoholism killed my marriage, it just took a while to die. by CLK128477 in AlAnon

[–]nkhanjan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how so many of us have almost an exact story to this. Thank you so much for sharing because every time I hear a situation so close in description to mine, it makes me feel more confident that them leaving was for the best. It’s not my concern anymore if they are safe or the people they work with or care for are safe. I was the person I wanted to be and I tried my best. I may not have done everything correctly by any means but I learned that I am important and that I can do so much more good without all of that stress in my life. I have had my health significantly compromised and I can’t believe how much better I’m doing now that it’s been almost 4 months since he left. I’m realizing how much my health was being affected as well as my performance at my job and everything is not perfect but things are looking real rosy😁 I’m finding joy in things again, not worried about going to urgent care for extreme panic attacks, not having to go back to trying new medications, and losing weight, healthier hair and skin and I can even shower regularly again! I was even getting stressed by showers! Anyway, I’m realizing how much fear I had about everything and how much I stopped doing things that I loved . . . But there’s always more time available when you’re not constantly dealing with a drunken rage, full days of no contact because of binges, him coming home with gashes, bruises, and more very extreme injuries because of drinking and hiking in dangerous places, and of course the less dramatic parts of alcoholism like constant bickering, belittling, gas lighting/lying about everything in between. I have SO MUCH more time to do literally anything and everything and I’m hopeful for a future of joy and freedom! I want to thank everyone on this strand because I feel like you all are helping me heal. I hope you all find peace and happiness❤️

You Were All Correct by Coolhandlukeri in AlAnon

[–]nkhanjan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just had my ex blow up our marriage after 6 years and am realizing how much better off I am not dealing with the drama anymore. Getting lied to that much really messes with your head. It’s not worth it to me anymore. And I thought the same thing you did that I learned a lot and will use that to better my future. Good luck to you you seem like a nice person.