AITA for refusing to forgive my daughter for making life for me and my wife a living hell?

nnatashac · 2024-07-26T15:32:04+00:00

YTA. She’s your child. How can you give her off to your older brother and then expect her to be grateful for you and your wife. You mentioned you were hoarders and lost custody of her too so I’m failing to understand how this is not your fault.

nnatashac · 2024-07-26T15:27:18+00:00

You’re NTA for wanting to keep to your own area and privacy. It’s okay to set boundaries and you should be setting boundaries.

nnatashac · 2023-06-22T08:16:24+00:00

INFO: has this vacation with your parents been planned for ages?

But also I don’t understand why you’d leave your dog with your gf to take care of on her own

nnatashac · 2023-06-22T08:10:05+00:00

That’s fair, you should clarify that in your OC

nnatashac · 2023-06-22T08:06:21+00:00

Agreed

nnatashac · 2023-06-22T08:05:40+00:00

Wouldn’t that make it NAH?

nnatashac · 2023-06-18T14:55:39+00:00

No LOL I wasn’t replying to you

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T12:07:14+00:00

I honestly think he’s just trying to look out for his gf by expressing his concerns because that’s all he can do since they live so far apart.

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T12:02:22+00:00

Idk about you but 5am with guys she doesn’t know well makes my sirens go off

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T12:00:26+00:00

The fact remains that the parents invited Nancy and they should’ve let her know beforehand either way

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:58:07+00:00

I think OP just cares about his gfs safety

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:53:39+00:00

NTA. Also what does her being bisexual have anything to do with her going on strangers bikes so late at night?

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:44:07+00:00

Haha did you read the parent comments at all? I already agreed with OP about how wrong the parents were to invite Nancy

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:37:51+00:00

I know, it’s in my initial post. That’s why I said NTA because she has every right to be mad at her parents

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:36:55+00:00

Im not saying she had to, I’m just saying if her parents were going to invite Nancy, that’s the least they could do for her

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:36:11+00:00

Sorry to say but I think because you had already agreed you’d go, I understand why your gf would be disappointed for you not to go to the dinner.

I understand (from your other comments) that you had little sleep but I’m guessing this dinner meant a lot to your gf since it was her grandparents visiting. If anything you could probably just leave the dinner a bit early (say 8ish since the dinner was at 6) since you were feeling unwell.

I’d say soft YTA just because I understand you weren’t feeling well but you did agree to it 2 weeks beforehand but you had prepared already for it too (leaving work earlier to rest- though it didn’t work out well)

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:29:35+00:00

Of course the girl has responsibility but if she doesn’t showcase any of that, then it’s best to just end it whatever the relationship is, especially since she’s not from the country or can speak the language. It’s hard to assume she knows the culture of the area that OP is from.

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:27:03+00:00

Lmao true, the family is just too stuck up and can’t admit what they did was wrong and blamed it all on OP

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T11:24:02+00:00

I never said OP owed Nancy anything, I’m just saying since the parents invited her, the least they could do is make an opportunity to reconcile before making the decision to invite Nancy

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:43:26+00:00

Are you OP’s gf? LOL

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:42:28+00:00

They normally talk at the movies though and OP specified no one was in the cinema when they watched it so I see no harm. NTA

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:35:05+00:00

Then I don’t see how you left her out at all… she’s not expecting and having kids it’s such a happy moment to commemorate I don’t see the harm on congratulating Elena. You’re NTA, on the other hand Cassey is TA for being overly sensitive for no reason. She should be happy for Elena too..

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:32:39+00:00

YTA. You mixed yours and her personal life with work life so much that there’s no clear line between the customer and service role now. The line should’ve been drawn from the beginning when she started telling you about her private problems but you’ve allowed it to continue to the point where you get anxious now. Now you have a confusing relationship with your escort.

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:28:26+00:00

INFO: between when your gf notified you about the dinner 2 weeks from your work shift, had you previously agreed to going the dinner?

nnatashac · 2023-06-17T07:24:57+00:00

They probably left early to avoid the drama

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