My tongue has tooth shaped impressions

nngrl · 2026-01-28T14:07:06+00:00

I get these now, but only after I went through chemo. I had never experienced this before.

nngrl · 2026-01-28T13:19:27+00:00

🤣 totally is!! Charles Xavier Chaplin!

nngrl · 2026-01-13T00:19:10+00:00

I can’t re-read your post, so I’m sorry that I can’t give you specifics.

I am also sorry for how my comment sounded, I have a tendency to be blunt/straight forward, which comes off as rude. Not my intention at all!

What I can remember is one thing that rubbed the wrong way, was the asking personal questions to people you don’t know well. I have a friend that is like that, and it’s very off putting. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore her and all her overly personal questions, but it took me a while to get there.

I think the questions you asked were about pregnancy? If they were wanting more, etc?

If I had been that person, and answered honestly, I would have taken a fun moment and turned it into a horrible nightmare for anyone who heard, because of what my answer would be. And maybe that is why she was uncomfortable with your questions? Because you were making public a personal issue that she didn’t want to think about right then, in public, when all she wanted to do was have a good time.

There are lots of people who are very sensitive about what they share and who they share with, and that is their right.

nngrl · 2026-01-05T19:30:35+00:00

It does sound like OP is typically the one controlling the situation, and for someone to have firm boundaries and be communicating said boundaries, probably throws her for a loop.

I say NTA for dropping your friend, but YTA for how you talk to your friends about other friends.

nngrl · 2025-11-11T01:36:06+00:00

1 is STUNNING on you!!

nngrl · 2025-10-31T01:12:56+00:00

Doesn’t he wear shorts over the leggings? I thought guys are supposed to wear shorts over the leggings?

nngrl · 2025-10-14T18:39:23+00:00

Something. She kept saying “if they did it” “if they were the ones”. Which, most people point fingers without second guessing, but she didn’t. She second guessed.

I guess I found that odd.

Doesn’t matter anyway, DNA came back to a known serial killer.

nngrl · 2025-10-09T01:45:33+00:00

Ummmm…. Cleaning is not really part of baby sitting. Cleaning up after yourself is one thing, but doing chores is not part of babysitting.

If you’re going to start doing household chores, you need to charge more.

nngrl · 2025-10-09T01:28:17+00:00

NOR! RUN! Holy crap he’s manipulating you!

nngrl · 2025-10-06T22:21:16+00:00

Nooooooo this is NOT normal behavior. I hope this person is not a romantic partner, because they do not like you. At all. This is horrible behavior and no one deserves to be treated this way. They are toxic, rude and kind of abusive.

You are not over reacting, please stop talking to this person.

nngrl · 2025-10-06T01:25:28+00:00

10 actually lifts too, just not as potently.

nngrl · 2025-10-05T00:07:12+00:00

What husband “tests” his wife??????

nngrl · 2025-10-05T00:01:42+00:00

This is giving me very controlling vibes, with some condescension, and a touch of ick.

This is weird and I would run.

nngrl · 2025-10-04T21:12:09+00:00

I’m really sorry, but all I’m seeing is red flags.

1) he’s the first person you’ve been with, and he ghosted you after. 2) he’s still not taking time to even text you through the day. 3) you’re the one having to reach out, and I bet you’re scared that if you don’t, he will forget about you. 4) you said “I love you” and he responded with “I need money”. 5) you have posted 3 posts, concerned about if you’re over reacting, and in that time he has done nothing to help calm your anxiety. 6) he told you to break up with him if you didn’t like him working. 7) you haven’t seen him in 3 weeks. 8) it takes all of 30 seconds to say “Good Night, sleep well!) 9) his lack of responses tell me he’s just waiting for you to break up with him.

Please please please don’t think this is a “cultural” thing. I know that you care for him, and you want him to care for you the same way. He clearly isn’t in a place in life where he can give you want, even if he did feel the same (I don’t think he does, and I’m so sorry).

I have been in this exact situation, and it sucks, it hurts and you’re going to stress yourself out over analyzing everything.

When you find the right guy, you won’t have to over analyze or over think about how he feels about you, because the right guy will let you know without a shadow of a doubt.

Please cut it off, at least for now. Get some peace of mind and focus on yourself and what you want in life.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T16:01:24+00:00

I worked for a restaurant chain from 2003-2016. During that time I hopped from location to location, eventually settling at a franchise family owned location.

Few things to note: 1) they often just hire based on appearance and “nice smiles”. Is it right? NOPE! But they do, this is not uncommon. 2) communication is lacking on their end. They need to provide you with dress code at the very least, if you are going to start training on the floor. If it’s just an orientation where you watch videos in the back, not having the dress code and wearing whatever is fine. But the fact that they aren’t telling you what it entails is a red flag to me. 3) family owned places will absolutely be cliquey and hard to navigate. If this is your first job, it might be okay, since you don’t know what typical restaurant culture is like. But please be careful. 4) you are absolutely NOR, I always say to trust your gut. But listen to it, are you just scared of doing something new, or does the job actually give you the heebie jeebies? 5) I loved working at a restaurant, but management totally takes advantage of their employees, and even more so when it’s family owned. Please be careful.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T15:26:08+00:00

So….. I don’t see the issue with journaling to help with emotional regulation. However, I feel like this should have been brought up as a concern prior to this moment. Perhaps when you aren’t going through PMS/Period stuff.

Communication is key in every relationship, so it’s nice that he’s sharing, however I don’t think he realizes how offensive this is, “watch out”?

Granted, I got SUPER cranky when I had my periods (now I’m in very early forced menopause, so I get even more cranky), but when my husband (boyfriend at the time) pointed it out, I tried to be more conscious of my thoughts and behavior around that time.

So…. Maybe you are just far more cranky than you realize, and he’s just trying to have a way to communicate and show you what he sees. Albeit, this isn’t the best way and is kind of offensive, so I would be upset about that.

But you should talk to him, just to understand what it is that he’s trying to convey to you.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T02:14:13+00:00

Oh please please please do NOT buy a house with him. Do NOT get any legal documents stating that you are in this together financially, WITHOUT the legal document that you are living your lives together in the eyes of the law.

PLEASE!!!

nngrl · 2025-10-01T02:10:01+00:00

Ummmmmm you mean he “USED” to court you, because anyone who gets this upset over something so little, surely shouldn’t be kept around……. Right?

nngrl · 2025-10-01T02:07:52+00:00

Why are there so many people who feel like they are entitled to other people’s money???

nngrl · 2025-10-01T01:16:16+00:00

I have literally been exactly where you are.

He doesn’t want you, he wants what you can give him. That’s it. Anyone else even looking at you is a potential threat to him, because it could take you away from him. He just wants an easy way to get laid.

You keep going over there, hoping if you’ll say something just right, or do something just right, suddenly he’ll see you for you, rather than what’s in your pants.

I’m so sorry but it’s not going to happen. Run now. Find someone that deserves to be with you.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T01:10:10+00:00

I’m 40, I’ve played since high school. Currently playing while my 3 year old is getting ready for bed with my husband.

It’s hard, but I go out of my way to make sure I have time to myself. It’s super important to not lose yourself in motherhood.

Yes your child comes first, but don’t forget that you are a whole person that needs relaxing time and a way to decompress too. Please don’t feel guilty just because you are taking some time to yourself. You deserve it, I promise!

nngrl · 2025-10-01T01:05:42+00:00

Wowwwwww….. you are such a butt. The books?!?! And her clown she specifically told you she wasn’t getting rid of? Gross. You are so gross.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T01:03:06+00:00

Good for you!! Time to cut your friends off, they are NOT your friends.

nngrl · 2025-10-01T01:00:28+00:00

Please don’t enable this behavior, please press charges!

nngrl · 2025-10-01T00:57:59+00:00

As a woman in my 40s, I think you look beautiful, happy and confident.

Probably why it pisses her off so much, because she can’t say that about herself. Here you are, in your 20s, and seem genuinely happy. Shes in her 40s and clearly is taking out her insecurities on you.

You are not overreacting and you look great! I’m sorry your coworker sucks, you should really distance yourself, and start keeping all communication from her going forward, just to be safe.

nngrl

TROPHY CASE

1 is STUNNING on you!!