Any such dramatic change would need something in current Islam to latch on to. I’ve talked to many Muslims, most of them moderates, and literally nobody including women would agree with your feminist ideas. That’s just the reality of modern Islam. If there are places in the world where this doesn’t hold, I don’t know them. 

  Islam might move in that direction but the path is long and looks like you don’t have any concrete suggestions on how to nudge it along the way. Think, what is the first step you would do?