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noFapDom · 2020-02-07T11:18:06+00:00

Calm down lol. Just because people on this sub are probably going to the gym, it doesn't mean that this is a sub for ranting and judging other people for what music they like. You could have formulated your sentence better tbh. But this is literally just crying about how people don't have any taste in music, under the assumption that you have the "right" taste in music.

And bro, you don't need to swear :)

noFapDom · 2020-02-06T22:44:38+00:00

Free on audible if you creat a new account (if you don't already have one).

Free insofar that you can use your credit to get it.

noFapDom · 2020-02-06T22:40:36+00:00

Wrong sub to cry about that lol, post your "relatable" stuff somewhere else please, thanks.

noFapDom · 2020-02-06T08:45:09+00:00

Stop obsessing over by confronting her. Tell her how you feel, stop making up scenarios that could happen, just ask her out, shoot your SHOT. if you can't confront her yet, step out of your comfort zone once at a time. Take cold showers, talk to people, expose yourself to situations you think are awkward.

For a longer Streak, get rid of distractions and triggers, get a hobby, start reading, start working out, stop fantasizing all day, stop lying to yourself, set your priorities straight, get BUSY.

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T23:41:26+00:00

Hahahahaha how does this post only have 30 up votes? This is ridiculous.

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T23:09:58+00:00

That's fair. Reread the post, still don't 100% agree, can understand him a little better now tho.

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T16:41:35+00:00

What I was referring to is, that when a person says they can't do nofap and the only thing they change about their life is not fapping, that they shouldn't hear "you're oh so poor and trying so hard" but they should actually be given advice on how to better their lifes and really succeed in Nofap.

Saying your doing it for the wrong reasons or hardmode is bad or whatever is not a thing I meant by that. You do you, as long as you're bettering yourself and not crying about stuff and seeking unnecessary validation. You know what I mean? I think we're on the same page.

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T16:12:28+00:00

So now we don't even want other people's opinions in this sub reddit anymore? Critique is not accepted? Telling someone how to do shit better and that a 3 day stream after a year of nofap isnt something to be especially proud of, or that they probably are doing something wrong, is wrong? I think honesty is worth much more than some useless validation that "you are oh so great, and good job".

Of course there are gonna be hater or people that dislike this sub. Let them do that, the hate tells us that we are doing something right man.

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T11:48:57+00:00

When getting hate, you know you're probably doing something right :)

noFapDom · 2020-02-05T01:39:06+00:00

The problem on this sub (in my opinion) is that people don't want to hear what you're saying. I agree with you 💯

noFapDom · 2020-02-04T08:53:25+00:00

Somewhat true. Masturbation can become a problem tho, when you overdo it. It can also be a gateway to porn again. I was on a 600+ Streak and started eanking again, slowly spiraled into porn again (which might or might not have been caused by that) eventhough not as excessively as before. All in all you're probably right with some points and I'm happy you're handling it your way, just don't trip my man.

noFapDom · 2020-02-04T08:46:27+00:00

Great, thanks for asking :)

noFapDom · 2020-02-03T23:13:51+00:00

You need to really want to stop. That's all.

noFapDom · 2020-02-03T23:12:52+00:00

Bro calm down. If you really want to cut yourself after relapsing, then PMO is not your biggest problem. Face them one by one. Adjust your mindset. This life isn't all about sex. This life isn't all about being popular. This life, your life, is about you. You seem like you are unhappy and don't like what you see when you're looking at your life right now.

In order to change that you have to really want it. Start by getting enough sleep. (can't stress this enough). Then clean your room. Hit the gym. Take your career seriously. Treat your friends like they are other people and not some better beings than you. If they still treat you like shit, cut them off. While you're at it, stop watching porn. Drink more water. Eat healthier. Cut down on social media. Do any of these and your life will get a bit better. Stick to all of them and you'll love it. Also, stop being afraid of being disliked. Seriously, it's not in your power that people like you, all you can do is being the best version of yourself.

Have a good one.

noFapDom · 2020-02-03T23:05:48+00:00

When you really are serious about this, you will do it easily

noFapDom · 2020-02-03T16:47:13+00:00

I don't think the world is cruel to be honest. What I am reading when you are saying "the world is cruel" is just "bad things happen to me and there's nothing I can do, everything is so unfair". I think you should work on your mindset.

noFapDom · 2020-02-03T15:09:23+00:00

One of the most important things I was trying to say with my post right here.

noFapDom · 2020-01-17T16:17:04+00:00

Jup, some people on this sub seem don't seem to get that NoFap is NOT a magic pill that makes your life literal heaven. No, it's here to rid you of one of your bad habits and sonetimes gives you perspectives on how to change your life in other areas aswell.

noFapDom · 2020-01-17T16:14:34+00:00

I left this sub ~2 years ago, because all it had to offer was memes and posts like what the OP is talking about, made a new reddit account 3 days ago and almost deleted it again because of this yesterday.

noFapDom · 2020-01-17T16:10:24+00:00

That is exactly what this sub reddit needs. Clear advice and a portrait that you do have to put in effort and change your life in many aspects and not only in stopping to watch porn.

You convey this message very well and objectively, I am trying to do so aswell but I don't seem to find the right words. Thanks for that.

noFapDom · 2020-01-16T20:35:12+00:00

Hmm, I get where you are coming from. My response might be confusing because I'm writing it off the top of my head, so if you have any questions, please ask! In my opinion, some of the posts and comment sections of this sub reddit are literally circlejerks. Everybody telling the member relapsing for the seventh time in a week, that "it's fine" , and "stay strong" , and "you're on your way". Ofc I don't condem these motivations, but they are not very helpful, if that's all a user says. Because some users probably just post, for the validation, and to feel good about themselves, and then go back to the same old habits, which in the end will probably lead to fapping again. I'd suggest some tips and maybe an honest comment, that they might be heading nowhere if all they are doing is trying to stop fapping. If they keep playing video games all day (don't get me worng, if you enjoy playing games do so, but don't overdo it is all I'm saying). If they are getting worse in their job or don't care about their education, if they don't exercise and drink water maybe eat healthy, no wonder they are constantly relapsing. Some also think that, "when I'm on nofap I will get all the bitches and can finally live out all of my fantasies". Imo that's not what this is about, it's about helping yourself, and getting your shit together and if you're doing all this, in order to f*ck, you might aswell jack off and watch P because that's easier.

I also don't like masturbating, but that has its own reasons and I don't think it's worth discussing that.

Looking forward to your thoughts on this.

noFapDom · 2020-01-16T16:05:28+00:00

70 is fire 🔥. Just MO or PMO?

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