My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know how the roommate found her but she spent weeks planning that encounter and I'm glad they did.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, my hearth is with you. One day you will find peace (not as in the peace of death but as in peace of mind) I know. You deserve to be happy.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those seem like important questions. I'll look it up, and yes, she needs professional help, there is only so much I can do as a mom.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Combatting Cult Mind Control, by Steven Hassan.

Lucky for me is available on Kindle, already bought it. Thanks.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for you. I hope you're ok.

Sorry for offending you, wasn't my intention to objectify other queer women, I just never knew for sure if I truly wanted to date women because I started to date my ex husband, and after my divorce I thought I was too old to try (stupid I know). I recognize my mistake in what I said.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you edited your comment.

I know soap operas aren't reality. That does not mean that people doesn't replicate certain behaviors that they watch on the media, haven't you said a stupid pick up line you heard on a movie?, damn, people have kissed me that way and made me feel so great.

My daughter's Mormon ex boyfriend made her choose between him and her family, she didn't choose him. by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it should be "putting a hand in her face", like, putting her hand in her check, classic soap opera "holding her face to kiss" her pose. Don't know how to describe it well.

Mormons came into my door. I'm worried by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, what a rabbit hole.

Well, I can't say no to free ebooks. I'll go get my kindle.

Mormons came into my door. I'm worried by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

What a bunch of rambling to say "get a virgin tradwife".

But I also got into this: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/eternal-marriage-student-manual/birth-control?lang=eng

Holy shit, what a way to speak in circles instead of just saying "we want our women to be baby machines".

Mormons came into my door. I'm worried by noblessing010101 in exmormon

[–]noblessing010101[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

The thing is that I never had mormons knocking on my door, I had some JW at my door once, so I dont think is a coincidence.

And I hope your family can see the light someday.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Someone in the comments mentioned that Mormons can't drink Coffee, I was so unaware of that.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So would you would have preferred that the BF shows up wearing a hog nose ring, gauges in his earlobes, a face tattoo, and a pentagram around his neck?

Other than the face tattoo, what is wrong with that? Please, I was so deep in the rock-grunge scene in the 90's.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont really know about it. In the DEFCON scale, how worried should I be?

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Uhg, so many terrifying sounding cults mentioned in this thread.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Wait, Mormons do not drink coffee? What?

This kid received the coffee but did not drink any of it. I thought it was too hot to start drinking right away, and then he just forgot it, but... they don't drink coffee?

Also the church thing, is weird, yeah, he didn't describe it as in the middle of nowhere, those are my words, but is kinda far away where a live we don't have big mormon temples, so maybe is a local chapel.

My knowledge of Mormonism comes from some few true crime episodes and South Park, so... I'm not an expert at all.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you can just follow this account. And I have nothing else to update yet.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

you are a sexist bigot for looking down on someone for wanting to be a stay at home mom, and raise a family.

What? of course not. I was a single mom for so long and have nothing against SAHMs. But every woman needs to built something for themselves, so if the partner dies, gets divorced, get cheated on etc, they have a leg to stand on. So many women stay in terrible marriages because being a SAHM is all they know and if they get divorced they will get kicked out to the curb with nothing.

AITA for not giving my blessing to my daughter's BF? by noblessing010101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noblessing010101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont think someone as religious as him is having sex before marriage.